I am a 22 year old guy from India. me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for 3 years now. We love each other a lot. It’s so much fun when we are together. Also, we have planned to get married when we turn 25. Even her mum likes me a lot.
3 months ago she went to the USA for her higher studies. We have been talking a lot less since then. She has made a guy friend there. She goes out with him for movies, stays out with him till late in the night, texts him a lot and stuff. She never picks my calls, if she does she says that she is busy and that she will call back later. But she never calls back. Today i had a long chat with her to understand what exactly is going on. She said sometimes when I call her, she dosen’t feel like talking to me and that’s why she never picks my calls.
She also tells me everything about that guy. She said they go out for movies, dinner and stuff. She says that he likes hanging out with him a lot. She says there is nothing between them.She also says that she loves me .
Also she said that when she is with him, she dosen’t pick my call because that guy feels weird if she talks to me in front of him. Why does she care what he thinks? She dosent think that I will feel bad if she dosen’t pick my call. Why is she more concerned about him than me?
Extra information- I am a lot better than him. I look a lot better than him(infact girls in my office drool over me.). Plus I have studied in the best engineering college in India and I am sure I will going to Harvard in a couple of years for MBA. In total, I am better than him in every way.
Guys please help me out here. Why is doing this? Am i just getting paranoid? Please help me out. I love her a lot.