I have been on an extended vacation for about 30 days. During this time, I had limited access to the internet and no access to a phone.
I returned home yesterday, and called my gf up to tell her I was ok but I needed to get some sleep since I had been up for almost a day traveling and that I would call her to catch up in a few hours.
I call her after I wake up and she tells me, ‘I’m on the one phone right now, can I call you back?’
She was talking to a female friend of hers who undoubtedly, had nothing important to to say. (The lack of importance was later confirmed.)
She sent me an email a bit later (where she admitted what she did was wrong) and this was my reply:
Her comment really, really pissed me off. I mean, she ‘said’ she missed me and yet she’s too busy to stop talking to her friend and talk to me?
How should I deal with this? I have no clue. She’s appropriately contrite but if her gut reaction isn’t to stop and speak to me after not speaking to me after a month away, how emotionally involved is she in the relationship?