OK, here’s the situation.
I think my girlfriend’s going to finish it with me. We’ve been together 6 months. She complains that She dosent see me enough, and that we have to plan what we do around me. Which is a fair enough point, I am a busy guy. Between work, my radio DJ slot and my Band, my time is limited. But I spend more time with her than I do on my hobbies. I have been working a few weekends lately, which she understands, but if something else comes up and I have to cancel on her, We argue. or rather, she argues, I apologise, and then feel guilty for upsetting her.
She tells me that I need to stand up for myself, and learn how to say no, and not to volunteer for everything. But thats just who I am.
We spent the weekend arguing about this, and we both got fairly angry.
I had a gig yesterday afternoon (which itself was the cause of another arguement), and phoned her when I got back, saying I’ll go over to her when I get cleaned up. I had a thumping headache. I took 2 aspirin and by accident, fell asleep.
I rang her as soon as I woke up, (an hour after I was supposed to see her) and apologised, explained about the headache and falling asleep. she got angry about this, about having to wait for me. She didn’t feel that she should call me to see if I was running late.
She hung up on me.
I sent her a message today, saying “Are we talking?”
And I got the following back “Of course we are, we’re not kids for fuck sake.”
Now before you get me wrong, She is a really nice girl (anyone of you I’ve talked to about her will know how I feel).
I was prepared to give up my radio DJ slot to spend more time with her, but now I don’t know if its worth it.