I’ll keep it brief because I know these personal stories are not interesting, but just trying to get some advice:
My relationships all end the same way: gradually the time we spend together creeps up and up until I resent being in a couple.
I don’t know how other people do it – how can you be in a serious relationship and still learn new skills, change career etc…when do you do it?
My girlfriend just sent me a message that the whole weekend is planned out; essentially from the time I leave work on Friday afternoon to returning again on Monday morning I won’t have any time to myself. My heart sinks when I see a message like this. Several weeks can go by without a single evening doing my own thing.
Have I told her how I feel? Yep…I told her as softly as I could that I need some time to myself sometimes and she cried and got angry and all that, but nothing actually changed.
And, as I say, all my relationships have ended up like this.
Am I a weirdo? And/or what am I doing wrong?