You can’t drop a comment like that and not tell us the story.
Getting back to the OP, guy here and when it comes to pubes I’ll take them anyway I can get them. Shaved is nice, trimmed is nice, natural is nice.
The point is by the time I get close enough to find out the condition of hair, my brain is too busy screaming “WE’RE GETTING LAID” to worry about it.
The fact that if they want their partners to do it for their benefit, they’re not willing to do it for theirs, if their partner likewise finds it attractive. Or at least, don’t seem to realize that it would work both ways.
I’ve read, and I find it believable, that prostitutes have been the fashion leaders since, like, there have been prostitutes. They sport risque fashions to make themselves recognizable whilst working the streets, and all the other females stampede to emulate them.
I’ve read that they were the first to paint their faces with rouge. They were the first to wear those high glossy boots. They were the first to shave their legs. They were the first to wear “haute pants”.
Like spammers constantly innovating to stay a step ahead of the spam filters, prostitutes were always coming up with some new scandalous fashion to stay a step ahead of the mainstream fashion.
Prostitutes were shaving their pubes, and advertising the fact, at least as far back as the mid-1970’s, perhaps even farther back. Cite: All the “XXX” classified ad brochures in the newspaper racks outside of liquor stores in certain neighborhoods.
Am I the only one who read the article? No one is going to comment on the creative director for American Apparel being named Marsha Brady?
Anyway, my limited experience with pubic hair removal had to do with an allergic reaction to an antibiotic that decided to form a rash under my arms, around my neck, and everywhere the pubic hair grew. I had to trim it very short with scissors (not shave it, not with that rash) for the steroid creme to get where it needed to be. When it was growing back, I found it really annoying. I can’t imagine having actual razor stubble there.
She stated she waxes. Waxed hair does not itch growing back in (and waxing lasts a lot longer, you don’t have to do it that often).
People who have that nice wispy public hair may not realize that having heavy wirey pubic hair that grows three inches out onto your thighs is actually pretty uncomfortable, sweaty, and smelly in the summer. Not to mention, universally considered unsightly when it shows wearing a modest bathing suit
I thought it started with porn, but maybe that makes sense. It is also might make sense for prostitutes to shave because of the “ick factor” of how many partners they have per night.
It may be hypocritical, but I do like the bush to be triangular and not to extend out onto the thighs or hip area if you know what I mean (definitely much more than a “landing strip” though). But I have sort of similar standards for eyebrows on both men and women, and beards on men. With eyebrows, don’t pluck them really thin, but do clear out the space above your nose so it is not a monobrow; and pluck or trim hairs that get all long and curly and wiry. For beards, keep shaving the part that is down on the neck, up to the point where the jawline begins.
As for whether I would be so disgusted that I’d refuse to get laid, probably not–unless it was someone only borderline doable already. But it’s certainly something I don’t like seeing in porn, for instance; and it’s a thrill to see someone European or whatever who still sports a full bush.
My wife has never shaved or waxed, and also does not wear makeup or heels, and I like that.
What??? You don’t understand how pubic hair could end up in someone’s mouth? And you think taste is the problem when it inexplicably does? And this has what to do with gender and pubic hair preferences?:smack:
:dubious: Do you have a cite for this? Because, quite frankly, it sounds like a load of bullshit. I highly doubt most women wanted to look like prostitutes. Quite the opposite, in fact.
Actually, leg-shaving became popular during the early part of the 20th century, when hemlines started getting shorter – women didn’t want leg hair showing, or poking through their stockings.
As for wearing make-up, people (men AND women) have been wearing it since time began. If you’re talking about modern days, once again, that most likely started during the 1910s, 1920s – especially with the flapper look of the 20s.
But if her hair was such that it did grow out onto her thighs, you would prefer that she shave or wax, correct? To make it triangular as you say?
I’m just pressing the point because the “natural look” is rarely genuinely preferred. Typically, men claim to want the “natural look” but they actually want the “natural hair, but not too much of it, in case you have too much it should be trimmed to my preference – but not too much, then I would feel bad” look.
It’s a valid pushback that I knew I was setting myself up for when I made those comments.
But I think I have a pretty good retort for this: just because I don’t think a man would look very attractive if he not only completely shaved his head and face but waxed off his eyebrows as well, it does not make me hypocritical if I also don’t think it looks good to have a giant mane of hair and bushy beard that has never been so much as trimmed since infancy. Fair point?
Totally. But you said “my wife has never shaved and I like that.” You do acknowledge that it’s just a coincidence that she already conforms to the look you prefer. In another world, you would be saying “well my wife shaves/waxes, but just to clean up the edges, and I like that.”
It appears you need it explained to you. Pubic hair is called 'nature’s dental floss" because it gets caught in your teeth.
waxing is suppose to be very painful. Razor stubble is always uncomfortable wherever it’s located and shaving is often a painful daily chore. And og help anyone who shaves against the grain and gets ingrown hairs.
All this is a tremendous amount of work to look like a prepubescent girl which personally squigs me out. If this fad is dead then good riddance to it. Pubic hair is one more erogenous zone that a gentle touch can add to versus a razor-burned minefield of pain.
Seriously off the mark here. My ex-wife had the wax thing done every 6 weeks or so. She said it added greatly to her enjoyment of oral and digital stimulation. She suggested I shave to see how even more skin-on-skin would feel during intercourse. In a word, great!! We both loved it. Also made it more pleasant for her to perform oral on me.
I’ve now been divorced over a year, and now dating a woman who, coincidentally also waxes. Same results.
No mine-field of pain. To me its analogous to sex with a condom versus sex without a condom. More skin area exposed, more stimulation.
Regardless, if I had wound up dating someone with a full bush, no big deal, as someone said earlier, so what> By the time I get to that point, I’M GETTING LAID!!!