My guess? Victims of stalkers/rapists.
DNFTT
If she doesn’t like forward guys, **Lizard, ** maybe you shouldn’t kiss her. 
Why don’t you take her out somewhere romantic? I would say at this point it’s ok to turn up the woo-age. Maybe dinner at a nice spot? Or you could offer to cook for her, if you’re good at that sort of thing.
I wasn’t “trolling,” I was making a joke, albeit a dark-humored one.
Nevertheless, I apologize to Czarcasm, to victims of stalkers/rapists, and to all as-yet-unnamed members of the offended class for my tasteless joke. Please enjoy the rest of your thread.
Nice one! I may have to use that line in the future.
You’ve been here long enough to know that calling posters a troll is forbidden outside the Pit. This was damn near a warning.
Since when is posting an acronym with no names even mentioned “calling someone a troll”?
If Frank misunderstood your intent, why don’t you just tell all of us what you really meant?
You were not referring to someone in this thead? In this forum?
Then what, precisely, did you mean? Was this a random response to a Pit thread to be named later?
I can outright say that any guy who pursues me, I am automatically not interested in. I don’t do this purposely, but it’s just how my mind works I suppose. I’d definitely rather pursue the guy (in a low-key way) that I’m interested in, than have him chase after me. A guy who chases after me is extremely unattractive, and it also just turns me off because it’s the whole stereotypical “guys go after the girls” thing. Also, if a guy isn’t interested in being just friends with me first, then I’ll never be able to date him. I think that if a guy isn’t happy being friends with me (even if a bit disappointed that it isn’t something more), he doesn’t truly care about me.
Maybe that’s what some “hard to get” girls are thinking. Maybe they aren’t interested in guys that chase after them.
-Posted by fusoya’s girlfriend, on his account
I shall only get mildly bent out of shape.
Please, if you wish to participate further in this thread, or on the SDMB in general, acquire your own membership. We have many husband/wive, boyfriend/girlfriend (alter genders as appropriate), roommate combinations posting from the same location. We do, however, strongly discourage two people sharing the same membership. Just a heads-up.
You can join as a guest to participate in this thread, and - well - if you find after spending time on the board that you’re not interested in joining, I guess that’s our loss.
I understand what you’re getting at, and if I was planning on posting often, I would get a membership. But as things are, I probably will only be posting every once in a while.
Nevertheless.
I don’t want to drag this out. I may have been on the SDMB a while, but I was not aware of the specifics of calling anyone anything; probably because I have never posted “DNFTT” before.
I would submit that if you have to ask for confirmation from me of my intent and the target, then you don’t have a very good basis for saying I was accusing anyone in particular of trolling. Obviously I thought someone was, but saying “do not feed the trolls” is not tantamount to a personal accusation in my book. (Interesting that someone took it that way though, huh? Now, just WHY would he think I was talking about HIM?)
But I won’t argue about this further, or post about it anymore. Consider me warned.
Because it’s patently obvious, to anyone with a multicellular brain, that it was to me you were referring. You said “DNFTT” to someone who had just replied to me, quoting that very reply in your own post.
Like Frank, I’d be curious to hear an alternate explanation for what you meant, if you have one to offer— otherwise it just looks like you’re doing a pretty poor impression of Tony Snow right now. Not that I´m particularly injured by a suggestion that I was trolling; I just wanted to make clear that it was not my intention to do so.
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Then who is (are) “Tomndebb”? 