As long as we’re discussing group masturbation in straight males, female masturbation techniques and whether you like your penis, I suppose this isn’t that much more risque’. Does anyone here have the 90-Second Attention Span, otherwise known as “It’s Now or Never”? Given that my spouse needs a LOT of warming up, this has been a real problem for me.
Sure, but it tends to recur every 90 seconds.
Honestly the only time I don’t feel horny is for the 5-10 minutes immediately following climax.
I’ll be horny again before I fisnish this post.
Yeah, George Castansa (sp. the Seinfeld guy) had it (couldn’t get the condom open in time, lol).
I am not trying to make fun (I don’t have to try, it comes natuarally :D)
Seriously, In the case of a partner who requires more foreplay/time, you have to allow for suataining your arousal as well during that time…play with yourself, have HER play with you, engage yourself in fantasies, anticipate, whatever you have to do. Even if it means demanding some YOU time after her time to get you primed.
Yes, I’ve heard of it. You are not alone.
I dated a girl who would be revved up and ready to go for (at most) a 90-second window, and if I didn’t get her going at it in that time span, it wouldn’t happen. And the slightest imperfect thing happening would totally destroy her sex drive for the night. She was a little neurotic.
Hostile Dialect,
Hostile Dialect, Narcissist
Dan Savage did a column on this, and basically said the same thing to the guy who found himself getting soft during prolonged foreplay (cunnilingus)…essentially, hey, play with or have her play with your cock! No shame in needing some direct stimulation to keep it hard during 30 minutes or more of non-penis directed activity.
I’m sure all women would love to think that all men stay hard and get even harder while engaged in she-focused foreplay, but not all do. 
I always figured something along the lines of [Arnold] I’ll be back![/Arnold]
I had a girl who had impossible standards.
She took forever to get warmed up. Normally, I let the girl get hers before I get mine because once I start the launch sequence; it doesn’t take me long at all. With her, this wasn’t an option.
THIS girls problem was; I’d bust a nut, then she’d want me to keep going like I hadn’t missed a beat. Then she’d get all frustrated when I went flacid.
I tried to explain to her “Look baby, just give me five minutes then we can go for round two.”
No matter how hard I tried she never got the concept of how a man’s wiring works.
Yeah, that relationship didn’t last long.
Not sure why I posted this but there you have it.
Happens to me on occassion. We’ll get going and then something will happen that means we have to stop for a moment. Sometimes in that case I’ll lose my interest. I hate when that happens but it does sometimes.