My initial response was “WTF,” so imagine my pleasure when I discovered that was an option.
I don’t remember. Hey, I said it was a long time ago!
Now that I think about it, going back even further before I had had real sex, I was dry humping a girl – both fully clothed – and I came, but was too embarrassed to let her know. For all I know, she did, too, and was equally embarrassed. Wouldn’t that be a kick?
Onceuponatime, you didn’t talk about those things; they were just too intimate.
Come on, betray the Sisterhood. It’s clenching thighs, isn’t it?
Did you have a secret orgasm?
…No… <shifts gaze>
Yeah, ages ago.
Combination of MDMA, sildenafil, and walking across town for a surprise booty call.
“Did you come?”
“No. Don’t stop.”
Sure. Condoms + being quiet.
With my ex I occasionally would when we were using condoms. This was because she would throw a fit if I had an orgasm first. Of course if she had one first she would roll over and fall asleep.
My god…why aren’t we still married???
Pocket pool.
EDIT: Oops, I skimmed over the “intimately involved” portion of the original post.
What the fuck school did you go to?
Seriously. people do this? 10 - 20% of your classmates did this? In a class of 100 people, anyhwre between 10 and 20 people were masturbating during exams???
What kind of exam was it?
Dang, I went to the wrong college.
lorene, there are ways for girls to masturbate by just sot of clenching down there but not actually touching themselves. I don’t know–I’ve never done it myself.
Nava, if you were doing it in such a way that she could tell–like making weird faces or whatever–that does seem pretty skeevy.
Ah, memories of my young and innocent days.
I was maybe 20 or so and not very experienced. During a very passionate make-out session with a girl I had just started dating (it may even have been our first date, I don’t recall), she climbed onto my lap and started grinding. Before long, yep, it happened. I was kind of embarrased and tried not to let on, but I’m pretty sure she knew.
Later, when I became more… acquainted with this particular girl’s sex drive, I realized that, of course, that’s exactly what she was trying to do! Duh!!
Yes, I have.
Ever read Cecil’s article ( http://www.straightdope.com/columns/read/2549/can-some-people-have-orgasms-without-genital-stimulation ) about psychic orgasms? I’m the foot pain person. Made for a few interesting work days.
Oh, I get that. I just didn’t realize that while I was trying to write an essay on cultural competency versus diversity, other people were* really enjoying the exam*, y’know?
I agree that that’s weird. It would never occur to me to want to rub one out during a test. That’s a time where I don’t really feel all that sexy or horny.
Male. In my younger days I could often ejaculate and stay hard. But some partners, knowing you shot your wad, would automatically go into “post-mode”. Heck - anything worth doing can sometimes be worth overdoing so I would show little reactions and encourage “more more” usually taking care of them (sometimes again) in the process.
Does that explanation help?
this always happened with me when I used protection. I don’t know what it was about those stupid things.
Yes, exactly that. Still do it from time to time if the moment demands it. Then of course it’s unlikely you’ll reach orgasm number two, so you then have to fake that too (as Cyberhwk said) :dubious:
It’s not really a sexy/horny feeling. It’s a fight/flight/fuck reaction. Cranking one out eliminates one of the possibilities and gets you to focus.
I don’t think I’ve ever had a fight/flight/fuck reaction…ever. And I don’t think I’ve ever had a fight/flight reaction in an exam. I want to focus and finish the test up, but I don’t think I’d even be thinking about masturbation at a time like that.