Have you had straight sex with your gay friend or gay with your straight?

Recent prior polls/threads on the matter:

Kinsey Scale Revisited/ Are you straight/gay/ bi?

A Poll on Doper Sexual Activity: Have you Crossed the Lines Before?

56% of Dopers claimed to be 100% hetero- or homosexual by inclination or identification (first poll), while 74.5% reported exclusivity one way or the other by activity (second poll).

Another gold star but wouldn’t rule out sex with a woman if both of us wanted to. I’ve had sex with straight friends, or at least friends who either identify as straight now or were at the time. It’s not all it’s cracked up to be, straight guys who play with others will often be quite restrictive in what they will and won’t do, IMO, and you never get the sense that they’re as in to you as a gay guy (you’re just a person they can have sex with, rather than a specific individual they want to).

Again, IME/O.

You should be. It was a golden era that may never come again…

I’ve done both. Mostly out of a combination of alcohol and boredom the few times we did.

I’m not sure I understand… are you gay or straight? Did you have gay sex or straight sex? I’m confused…

Sorry for the confusion. I typed in a hurry earlier and may have answered incorrectly.

I’m a girl - I’ve had straight sex with my normally gay male friend (s) and gay sex with my normally straight female friend(s).

As for what I am, well, I don’t know what that makes me other than I normally identify as straight for no other reason than I have a boyfriend now that I love and don’t see us breaking up ever, and I don’t want to deal with what all comes with identifying as anything else in a small southern town (yea yea, I’m no trailblazer). Plus I’ve married two men in the past and have not had a significant emotional relationship with a woman.

Honestly, that’s probably the most I’ve ever thought about “what I am” in my life. A friend once asked “just what are you?” and I said “well, it’s kind of like how hamburgers are my favorite food, but then sometimes I really want pizza. I’m a hamburger person sometimes and a pizza person others, but I usually don’t get hungry for both in the same meal. But I almost always come back to hamburgers.”

Wow, that’s way more than anyone ever wanted to know about my sex life. I hope like hell future employers don’t figure out my name here and google me. :slight_smile:

During my single days, I’ve had oral sex performed on me by pre-op and post-op transgendered (M-to-F) friends. Does that count? :smiley:

So how was the straight sex, for a female, having sex with all these gay friends? Fun? Disappointing? Meh? Passionate? Yucky?

I was 17 and had sex with a friend (in that we spent a lot of time hanging out together) - the most flaming gayest of gays in 20 school districts.
His idea, one time only, in freezing winter. We parked behind the high school, not even speaking, completely carried away by sheer animal lust. It was DYNAMITE fun, though I regretted it later.

One guy was just kinda meh. He was just doing it to piss off his boyfriend and make him jealous and I guess sleeping with a girl was the biggest slap in the face he could come
Up with, but since I refused to sleep with him until I had conferred with said boyfriend and gotten the OK, it didnt have the desired effect.

A few weeks later I slept with the boyfriend. The first time was awful because we were very intoxicated. One of us may have possibly fallen asleep/passed out during the act, but I’m not saying who. :slight_smile: We woke up the next morning and really just wanted to redeem ourselves so we proceeded to have a great time. We only did it one other time because it turned into a situation where it was fun and novel at first but we chose not to continue but left the door open for whatever we wanted to do later. It was the strangest arrangement for me because we truly regarded one another as friends we slept with and the genders didn’t seem to matter.

Very soon after I began dating my current boyfriend so we just dropped it and stayed friends and he got a boyfriend and it has been happily ever after and no one is the wiser.

An ex of mine fell asleep while going down on me once. It was more funny than anything else.

I don’t have any friends.

Straight guy here. I’ve never had sex with another guy or gay woman, nor do I have a desire to.

Many of my current friends, all of whom I met during a two-year stint working part-time at Macy’s Herald Square in New York some 20 years ago, are gay. They invite me to get-togethers and other events, include me in local LGBT activities, call me whenever they’re experiencing personal highs and lows, or simply to commiserate, and basically make me feel comfortable and part of the group. They know I’d do anything for them, and I feel the same way. Because of my friends, I’m a passionate advocate for equal rights for gays.

I’ve never been hit on by any of my gay friends. It’s understood that I have no inclination in that direction. It’s like being the one straight person (well, two since my wife finally came around) in a large gay family. I consider myself very fortunate to have them as friends. But no, sex with any of them aint happenin’.

I’m in my 50s and straight, but had a few in my early teens way back in the 70s. A buddy talked me into stripping naked and we fooled around (mostly hand stuff). It was my first sexual encounter.

I wasn’t attracted to him or other guys but it felt too good to stop, so I did it with him a few times and other guys I met for a couple of years.

Always felt guilty as hell afterwards. But as soon as I was horny I was up for it again. Started dating girls not long after and never went back to guys or even considered it.

I know a few other guys who said they did the same. Women too. You hit puberty and you’re overwhelmed with hormones, so you’re open to feeling ANYone’s touch.

Chalk it up to young experimentation. :wink:

I think that classifies you as Maximum Gay level. :slight_smile:

As I noted in one of the other two threads besides this one that you revived, jk90us, start your own thread if you want to continue this discussion. Do not revive any further old threads.

This one is now closed.