I recently saw a movie where a character made a girl orgasm with just a feather. i would like to know how this is done, for future reference and to impress the ladies with my great knowledge. I would also like to know the best ways to make sex more pleasurable for woman.
Find that woman.
Different women orgasm with very different levels and types of stimulation. What sends one through the roof may make another say “What are you doing and when are you going to stop?” Impress her not with your knowledge, but with your willingness to learn what she wants. Or start broad, and read her signs, she’ll tell you what she likes, and then what she REALLY likes.
Oh, damn, I gave out the secret.
Whew!!
At least you didn’t ask about the Venus Butterfly!!
Find a girl you like. Motion with your index finger for her to come over to you. When she comes over and asks “what do you want?” just say “I just wanted to see if I could make you come with my finger”.
… imagine what I could do with three…
Orgasm, as it turns out, isn’t so much a condition of physical stimulation as it is one of emotional and mental excitement. The feather, candle, cat-o-nine tails, etc. . . is just a prop to be used to achieve this excitement. Granted, physical pleasuring does put you in the right frame of mind to more easily achieve orgasm, but if they are already horny, then it truly is possible to talk a woman (or man?) to orgasm. I have personally witnesed this effect. (Long story, not for this or any other forum.) IMHO foreplay, and mood setting, are sometimes more important to achieving orgasm than the actual act itself.
More proof that fo imaginative sex, you have to think outside the box.
Ignoring that last quip, Heathen continues:
The largest sex organ in the human body is the brain.
Maybe in YOUR body, hehehehehe
(sorry, that was just too easy)
Usually, me leaving works…
I agree that it varies from woman to woman, but foreplay is important to most of them. If you know where/what a clit and G-spot are, this is generally good also. My advise is to try something, if they moan, do it some more. The feather technique is basically an old Tantra Technique where you lightly touch some one enough and they eventually orgasm. It’s basically sensousness (sp?) taken to the extreme. I suggest you web search for “tantra” or “tantric sex” to learn more.
Using just one feather takes a lot of skill. Start off with a whole chicken and then refine your technique.
In a follow-up to my previous comments, nothing is more important than communication. Either in a relationship, or just in sex. Knowing what your partner(s) like and dislike beforehand is key. If you are able to fully pleasure someone the first time you are with them then 1 of 2 things has happened (That I can think of.)
[list=1]
[li]The mood was so intense that it would have happened no matter what you had done.[/li][li]You got incredibly lucky (In the fortunate, not carnal sense.)[/li][/list=1]
By pleasure, I don’t just mean orgasm, I mean really really real orgasm. There is a difference.
It is not unromantic to talk, or otherwise communicate before, during, and after sex. What was good, what was bad, what was good in a bad sort of way? etc. . .
As NotBob13 so eloquently put it, If they moan, do it some more.
Body language tells more than words do, especially when you get to that point where your brain isn’t into talking anymore, other than calling up names of dieties and such. I believe the movie you are referring to is 40 Days and 40 Nights. I think I could probably get at least one woman to agree that the very idea of Josh Hartnett blowing almost anything across their body gets the mood right up where it should be. I could be wrong.
I realise that “mature and experienced” probably means “18+ and not virgins”, but somehow the image of blue-rinsed nymphomaniacs eagerly imparting advice to a young pup just won’t leave me…
Originally posted by Mastema
I take it from the brackets Mastema that you’ve seen it happen to a woman but not a man?
Two questions, then, assuming it was a woman:
-
How do you know she wasn’t faking?
-
Maybe I’ve led a very sheltered life, but I can’t see this being possibe with a man. Anyone know otherwise?
N.
Be sure to run it by the chicken first. They can get awfully cranky if you don’t wine and dine them properly.
Keep talking and I’ll let you know what occurs…
Keep talking and I’ll let you know what occurs…
Any reason why it shouldn’t be possible for a man? Men can certainly dream themselves to orgasm… Why shouldn’t it be possible to talk a man to orgasm, as well?
I’m not saying that it isn’t possible, just that I’m yet to be convinced. I think that orgasm is more corporeal in men. I’m perfectly willing to be proved wrong (quite looking forward to it in fact ).
N.