Help me understand this woman

She’s a flake. Forget about her and move on.

So did I. We share the same humour. I feel sorry for you.

I was going to post the same thing. This is probably the most likely explanation.

Umm, yes, I think that is one possibility… :frowning:

Hard telling, not knowing! You have yet to meet her so she could be any of those things.

I’d find someone that does want to meet up. She might be going on a lot of dates and has some prospects already?

Bitch-ho. I’m telling ya…

If that really is a possibility, then you’ve already won first prize: her absence from your life.

You are hurt. Yes… you need to work it out & get back into a happier and more confident place in your mind set. From there, her whims won’t define your life.
I’ve been told that some women may find that attractive also (and if I’m wrong I sure hope someone will correct me).

In this on-going saga of online dating, I got a hilarious message from someone else this morning. I quote here in its entirety:

A quick google of the email address shows that it is associated with a Nigerian scammer.

Does that mean the $10,000 I sent her so that she could smuggle the famed Enugu Osprey and come live with me is just lost to a scam?

“If they hang you, well, I’ll always remember you.”

Stranger

Well, my policy of not responding to people who can’t write in proper English would have paid off for that. :slight_smile:

Sorry, dude, I think you’re SOL. :slight_smile:

Which, by my own experience, is about 98% of the online population. The prose of the average online denizen is so painfully unreadable I just had to stop even trying.

“I hope you’re not letting yourself be influenced by the guns these pocket-edition desperadoes are waving around, because I’ve practiced taking guns from these boys before; so we’ll have no trouble there.”

Stranger

I wish men could have as high standards. Alas, I fall beneath the standard line for women who are attractive AND intelligent.

The last girl I saw didn’t know what a “harem” is (don’t ask), didn’t understand what I meant when I said “testing the waters” and was completely confused by the entire movie Shutter Island. When I sighed, disappointed, at every question that she’d ask, she’d insist that she was actually very intelligent.

Oh well. She had really big tits.

Hey, there’s only so much blood to go around in the body; apparently hers diverted resources from the brain to mantain mammary integrity, which may be a valid strategy for procuring a mate.

I’ve also had close encounters of the clueless kind; the other night I was at a bar, picking music on the jukebox, and a tall, fairly attractive blonde girl was standing behind me, waiting to use the jukebox herself. She asked me what I had played, an I said that I had picked a mix of modern music and classic rock, anything from Citizen Cope to Kansas. She had a puzzled look on her face and asked, “Kansas what?” I paused for a second, scanning the room for possible locations of hidden cameras, and said, “You know, ‘Dust in the wind’, ‘Carry on my wayward son’ Kansas?” At this she scrunched up her face and said she had never heard of those songs. She went on to pick two Lady Gaga songs in a row and some T-Pain or whatever autotune rapper it was. sigh

It sounds like the problem there wasn’t that she was dumb, it was that she’s too young for you – or is your age but doesn’t share your interest in classic rock. I don’t think there’s anything particularly dumb about not being into pop music from before you were born, and I say this as someone who actually does listen primarily to pop music from before I was born. Plenty of smart people listen to Lady Gaga, though.

I’m 24 and wouldn’t have known what you were talking about. shrug

I’ve never heard of Citizen Cope… but even I have heard of Kansas. Come on.

I’d have put two and two together based on the fact that he was at ye olde music machine, but if you asked me to name one Kansas song, I would be unable to do so (well, before his post listing them, I mean).

I was online dating 10 years ago; maybe things have gone really downhill since then. It really didn’t seem that hard to only respond to people who could actually write a real sentence, though.

With every year that passes, the scope of the internet increases. Twenty years ago only the nerdiest of the nerds were online. Ten years ago the scope had increased a bit. Now everyone and their mother is online.

But I stress again, as a woman, you really have pick of the litter. I’m forced to date some 'tards.