For almost 6 months, I’ve listened to my best friend trash his ex girlfriend. He’s called her everything from a lowclass ho to a lifesucking bitch who doesn’t even deserve dripping cum from a dog’s ass. While a lot of it was said out of hurt and anger because she dumped him, he really hates what she turned into after their breakup. She degraded herself, fucked any guy who would give her the time of day, and became exactly what he despises the most, a slut. They haven’t even talked since September. I’ve mentioned several times over the last few months that maybe he still had feelings for her, and was just hurt. “No Pam, I could never think of her in the same way I did while we were together. It’s over for good.” Well ,she has a way of manipulating people’s emotions. While talking the other day (for the first time in forever), she threw at him that she still loved him, and wanted to be together, and that breaking up with him was the biggest mistake she ever made in her life. And he bit right into it. He told me yesterday that he’s thinking of going back to her. Nevermind all the crap he’s said about her. Nevermind that when she broke up with him, he nearly killed himself, and wouldn’t eat or sleep for weeks afterwards. He spent his days and night alone in his room, miserable. Now that he’s finally gotten over her (he’s dating a lot more than before, and he’s trying to move on with his life), he wants to go back? I tried explaining all this to him. I spent 2 hours last night listing everything wrong with them being together again. I even talked to her, in hopes that I could change her mind. And it’s totally not working. “You know I love you Pam, and I value your opinion more than anyone else’s, because you’re my best friend, but you’re wrong. We belong together. It’s fate.” ARGGHHH!!! Could he be any more fuckin stupid?
Ok, so I’m pissed. I still love him, I’ll still support him. But when he comes crawling back to me after she breaks his heart again, I’ll be waiting with a big fat “I TOLD YOU SO!!!”