I’m trying to fugure out if being gay is as far from the centre orientation as being straight. I’ve long suspected we all fall somewhere on a continuum.
And frankly, I don’t know why I’m straight but I did give myself an opportunity to be gay far an evening and it was a total disaster for my partner. In short , ejaculation was not going to happen no matter how much I wanted it. Furthermore, there’s no doubt in my mind that his physical felatio performance was superior to anything I’ve experienced before or since.
What I like about women mostly are breasts. But I’ve seen gorgeous breasts with dicks standing up below and it was a total turnoff.
What I also like about women is that they want to please in all sorts of ways.
I like to rub on their clits till they go nuts. Finger or tongue.
I like to penetrate with feminine high pitched vocalization
Mostly I like to be appreciated by women more than men.
Now given that we’ve come across numerous examples of gays who’ve married and had children doesn’t it seem odd that they are capable of heterosexuality ?
Like the homosexuals say, I was just born that way. I started lusting after women when I was about 4 years old starting with Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman and then Barbi Benton. I didn’t know exactly what I was going to do when I caught them but I had some vague but disgusting notions (some of which later turned out to be accurate at least for some couples).
If you think that all people have a center-ish orientation, you are just going to have to take my word for it that I am 100% straight. I don’t even like being around other guys that much and I cannot even tell whether they are good looking or not. They aren’t even on my radar except as props in various other capacities in life. I used to hang around groups of gay guys when I worked in the service industry and I was fascinated in an outsider kind of way but still can’t figure out why’s and how’s of the whole thing.
Conversely, I cannot walk into a room, open a magazine, or turn on the TV without instantly fixating on the most attractive woman in it and then quickly having flashes of glorious sex with her. It is involuntary and I have always done it.
I would say that it is because I find women pretty and curvy and different but gay guys often report they can see that stuff just as well without an equivalent result.
It would take some acclimation to get up next to a male body and penises and all that but that would only be part of it. I don’t think I would be a good idea for a gay guy. I have a bad lifetime history with males and a pretty complicated one with sex itself, and a lot of it includes specifically sexual resentments and jealousies (some of it of the form “You other males have ruined sex, it’s hostile and it’s all your fault”, some of it of the form “everybody is having more sex than me and it’s partly your fault”, and some of it “oh so now I’m getting some sexual attention, too fucking bad it’s coming from the wrong damn sex well isn’t that just lovely”) and therefore at close & sexualized range I don’t think I would be a very nice person.
As for women, it’s threefold: I like their shapes especially the whole lower frontal constellation of vulva and leg crease V and (hips) and belly button and slender waist and curvy thighs; and, as a broad brushstroke kind of thing I like females better as people, I like their company better whether it is actively eroticized or not; and the way those two factors work together brews up an emotional high that I get around women which makes it a compellingly delicious experience.
Remember that little triangle of daylight between her upper thighs? I suppose that’s as good a litmus test as any. Not de rigeur, by any means (Judy Holliday is my feminine ideal, and I wouldn’t argue with the architecture of her thighs, whatever their specific joinery) nor could it compensate for gross deficiencies of character, but still, it somehow makes the species seem worth propagating.
(plus, guys just don’t smell like something I’d care to fuck)
Forget this “centrist” nonsense. Men are completely uninteresting and kind of ridiculous; there’s nothing sexually interesting about them.
Women… where to start? Their beautiful, smooth, soft faces. Their hair, dear Jesus, yes, their hair. Breasts, of course. Legs. Asses. Pussies. All that goes without saying but there’s just so much more. Their smooth arms. A woman’s back… yowza, those curves, those shapes, is thyere anything sexier than a woman’s bare back? The way they walk. The way they toss their hair. The way they all seem to know how to dance. Their voices. Their smell.
I’d better go up and, uh, speak to Mrs. RickJay about something…
What he said. (With the exception of Mrs. Jay, though I’m sure she’s all that. Just not my place to say.)
I’ll also add, minority interest though they may be: feet. A woman’s foot may physiologically be 99% identical in design to a man’s, but vive la friggn différence, if ya know what I mean.
Mouths. Soft, fat bottom lips that are just barely parted. The way they pet their own hair and arms. When you can see that inch of skin just above low jeans and you just want to wrap your hands around and gently squeeze- and the flair of hips just below that exposed inch. The arch of their feet…
huh? Oh, you asked hetersexual men. I’m sorry. Heterosexual woman here. Carry on.
Oh the mental image… Didn’t catch that at first, thanks picker.
Regarding the OP, a woman’s butt. They say there are men who like tits and men who like ass (pardon my french) and I am definitely the latter.
I’m not particularly picky about size but more the shape. A nice round female butt is very attractive to me.
Also, women are so pretty. I’d acknowledge that a man was handsome if he was, but I don’t feel attracted to him because of it. Envy maybe, but no sexual desire. If I see a ‘hot guy’, what I usually think is ‘I should workout more’. But a beautiful woman will linger in my mind for days.
See, guys are like dump trucks. We’re useful…utilitarian. Women are like Ferraris. They’re higher maintenance, they look great, and you want to be seen with them.
Not sure that my fixation on women can actually be described; it is a primal permanent and pervasive knot at the center of my consciousness.
I’m a heterosexual male. I have no problem seeing myself in very close contact with the female anatomy, but really have a difficult time even imagining the same with a male…more of a ??? followed by “yuck”! Sorry if I’m offending anyone here…that’s just how I’m wired…YMMV.
Women are lovely, lovely creatures. All of the positive things listed above by other guys…I’m really lucky because I like all sorts of body types and body parts, so depending on the woman I can be a leg man, or a eyes man or whatever is her best quality, plus appreciating all of the other features. I can even be a voice man…(there is a reason that the emergency voices on fighter aircraft systems are female…we perk up our ears!) Even the smell of female skin is arousing.
I also like the company of women…I do things like fish with guys, but find it easier to be more personal with my female friends…in fact my closest friends have be female.
I belieive the French have a phrase to that effect.
Now, being Y difficent, I really have no right to be in this thread. But i think it goes both ways. At least quite a part of my attraction to the XY types is because they are not like me. If I want to play with tits, I have some right here. No offense to homosexuals, do what you love. But the difference has always been important to me.