Gotta agree with the lady here. I think the word your shooting for here is Wahzoo.
OK, question. Is this term specifically related to the strap-on & pump-smack-pump? Or fiddling fingers? All of the above?
I don’t believe I’d want to pick nits there, either - gives a whole new meaning to the term ‘head lice’.
Personally, this is a question for you and you alone.
Lots of guys like it. Lots of guys like it lots and lots. If you think you might, go for it and see.
If you honestly don’t want to, don’t. I’m with Miaowara, No means No and the girlie needs to understand this now. But I have draconian consent rules with my personal life. I don’t allow myself to jump someone else unless I know its what they really want. (And invading my personal space without my permission is absolutely beyond the pale.)
If you are up for experimentation, go play, trim her nails, buy some Astroglide and see what happens.
Again, its your body, your life, your experiances. Your control, your responsibility. Don’t let people take that away from you.
I say, try something, like, fingering, and see if you like it. Try a few different things, and experiment-but go SLOWLY.
BUT…if you REALLY don’t want to, say NO. If she really loves you, she’ll understand your feelings, and respect them.
I have to say, though I have zero experience when it comes to anything remotely sexual-:(-the idea of someone going up MY arse makes me a little uncomfortable…I don’t even like it when my underwear rides up there!
Technically, to “peg” is the act of a woman performing anal intercourse on a man with a strap-on dildo.
“What term, from this day forward, will be the commonly accepted slang for a woman fucking a man in the ass with a strap-on dildo?” - Dan Savage, The Stranger.
I am not sure if the term includes digital insertion into the anus. Maybe the term “boy-butt bang”, or “BBB” could suffice for now.
Specifically being anally penetrated by a strap-on (presumably one that’s strapped on to someone).
–Cliffy
P.S. I think wazoo is spelled, uh, the way I just spelled it.
I dated a girl that would probe around, outside-only and on the taint, during BJ’s and it freaked me out seriously. It’s the only thing that ever made me jump and squirm. At first, at least. I’m not ticklish, but I think that the sensation I got from that is what normal ticklish folks would identify with. I got used to it and didn’t mind so much.
Anyway, another woman I dated did this too, except she went for the prostate. Again, I jumped a little, but decided to let her go and see where it took me.
Wow. Wowowowowowow! Totally worth it. Mind-blowing O.
I don’t know that I’d be in for the dildo-thing, but a finger, oh yeah.
I wish I had your “problems”…
To answer the OP, I would love it if my wife would use her finger (or better yet, just strap one on and have at it) on my whatchamacallit, but she refuses.
FM
Your girlfriend considers your perfectly normal reluctance to have a finger in your hoo-ha to be “homophobic”? That’s pretty sad. Just because someone else’s idea of a good time doesn’t appeal to you, that doesn’t mean you therefore hate that person’s lifestyle, does it? If I (being Catholic and all) never had a Bar Mitzvah, does that make me an anti-Semite?
As to the OP: No, no, no, a thousand times no.
Okay, I’ve just got to know, doesn’t the finger come out all covered with “waste product” and stink really bad? I mean, unless you preface each session with an enema…
Does she wash up right afterwards? This is the main thing that turns me off to the whole idea.
Ski: not if you wash. I know whereof I speak. You should wash your hands anyway, though. If the idea still bothers you, use a latex glove or a condom over the finger(s).
And yes, I’m all about the stimulate-his-prostate-while-blowing-him routine.
ski, it’s a valid concern…but actually, one’s rectum is not usually not full of waste matter unless you’re moments away from taking a dump. And, yes, it’s a good idea to wash up immediately after any kind of anal play.
Now that the unpleasant medical details are out of the way…
Yes, it’s quite a thrill when the mood and timing are right.
A delicate touch is important for the unititiated…but you may find you like it more than you’d imagine.
Furthermore, I find the strap-on idea pretty exciting, although I’ve never experienced that particular activity.
Whammo, consider yourself fortunate to be with a gal who is so open-minded and sexually adventurous.
The only orgasmolio I have ever had without direct stimulation to my penolio came when my wife worked my prostolio. Holy Cowolio! Like most things, It is worth a try at least once. No long nails, though.
The “anally-induced orgasm” scene in Road Trip is priceless.
My husband will not let me anywhere near that delicate area, however.
Sheri
OK. I have to take this back now that I know exactly what “peg” means. I thought it meant using a finger… not a strap on. No way in hell would my SO let me do that to him.