I didn’t want to hijack Delta-9’s Thread but I’m curious. The concensus seems to be 0-20 minutes on the average for self-inflicted orgasms.
How about when you’re with a man?
I become inhibited and, most of the time, totally unable to reach orgasm with a man unless I just start masturbating and he enters me (which then makes it way better than being alone!).
Recently, my man performed oral sex on me for about an hour. It just was Not working…We’d been drinking & I was tired and all it did was relax me to the point of almost falling asleep. I repeatedly asked him to stop and pushed him off me, but he was so persistent and really wouldn’t stop no matter what I said or did. All of a sudden, I got so excited by his persistence that BOOM! --Yes, I have a fantasy about being ‘taken’ roughly and having to ‘submit.’ Most guys I’ve been with are just too wimpy. But this one wouldn’t take ‘no’ for an answer. RRRaawwrr.
Well, anyway, I do usually have a problem reaching orgasm with a man even though it’s like 2-5 minutes on my own. Anybody else?
raises hand Takes me around…15-20 minutes start to finish by myself. With someone else…I get either nervous, self-conscious, or all of the above, and it takes FOREVER.
Which makes me feel even worse, since then I figure there’s something wrong with me. So then it takes even longer. sighs
Not very long (though the longer the first one takes, the more intense it is) and many many times if proper attention is given. The first one is the most “work” and after that it doesn’t take much.
I am not actually sure how long it takes me when with a partner. I tend to like being teased … a LOT … so even if I COULD climax in, say, 20 minutes, a man who knows what he’s doing will stretch that out to 40. Or more.
