What norinew said. Prayers for things that will lead to true improvement of my life are always welcome. Prayers that I see the light and come “back” to heterosexuality, or things in similar veins (forgiveness for my horrible sins, etc.) are not, because they’re prayers for things that need no forgiveness or change as requested in them.
I have no problem with religion, nor with Christianity (I consider myself a devout Christian, although at the moment non-denomenational), but only those who believe, often devoutly, something I simply cannot support or claim is correct under any right-minded system of ethics/morality: that my love is false, inferior, a rebellion from God. If that makes me non-PC and judgemental myself, I can live with that. I believe I have a right to judge those who would infringe on my life and my happiness for no reason other than they wouldn’t do it themselves and are ignorant as to why anyone else might think differently.
I am a good person. I am not a perfect person, and I never will be, because human nature is not perfection. I struggle, I fail, and sometimes I do the wrong thing. I do sin.
But my love is no sin. It can be as pure as any straight person’s.
I have loved with such intensity that I would have given my life for the other person’s safety and happiness. I have loved foolishly, I have loved well, I have had requited love, and I have had love unrequited. I have loved without hope of any sort of return or gain for it. I will continue to love throughout my life, because it tells me one more reason why I should get up in the morning when the world seems dark and hopeless. That doesn’t matter, because my life can be lit by one simple smile, a tender touch of a hand.
Those who say this love is a biological or psychological error to be corrected do not understand its beauty. Those who say it is an inborn trait I must suppress do not understand its power. I will do neither, because God would not wish it.
Jesus believed and understood the power in all forms of love. He wished for his disciples to spread love far and wide, without reservation or hesitation, because it is the one gift we can give to the world without expectations, yet receive back a hundredfold.
I will give every form of love I can. I love my family, I love my community, I love my country, the world, and all things in it. And one day I will hopefully love a husband, with all my heart, mind, body, and soul.
Why? Because Jesus wants me to.
(PS: This was not precisely directed at you, Polycarp. I just sorta got on a rant and it flowed from there.)