I am really into heavy metal. I am 13, and have liked it for about a year (ish). this whole time i have hid it from my parents. I have no idea what they would say do or tjink about me considering im the eldest of three kids in the family. i like five finger death punch, disturbed, hatebreed, killswitch engage, as i lay dying, avenged sevenfold. i would really like for my parents to know who i am and what i like but i dont know how i should do that. any opinions and maybe some advice?
I believe the traditional manner is to blast it in your room so loud that it shakes up your parents in the other half of the house.
they. would. kill. me.
Don’t worry, you’ll grow out of it eventually.
Oh, you want to survive it. Why didn’t you say so? 
Your parents are trying to find a way to tell you that they use to listen to heavy metal. However they are secretly into Lady Gaga now.
ummmmmmmmm. what?!
Are your parents extremely religious and/or conservative, MetalMaster?
um yes a little bit. in my eyes i think they want me to be this perfect christian child. but yes we go to church every sunday and always pray for others who need the extra help. but i absolutely love heavy metal and i just want them to know and accept who i am
Kill one of your siblings and explain it to your lawyer.
The music you listen to is not “who you are”. Just don’t worry about sharing it with them.
you are sick and need some help…
to me this music explains and shows who i am. why wouldnt i share it with them?
Y’all be nice. This young person has come to us for advice, and all she or he gets is abuse.
MetalMaster, what is the worst that could happen if you tell your folks about your love for Heavy Metal music?
thank you. umm they could have a slight disappointment in their firstborn son. i dont want that. and i like the music a lot and would not want them to try and take it from me
Here’s the thing: you don’t have to share every aspect of yourself with your parents. As you get older, you start to share less, and that’s perfectly OK, you’re setting yourself up to be an adult who is capable of living independently. And if you get to that stage, your parents have done a decent job of raising you.
I’m not suggesting you ‘hide’ your love of metal from them. Just…don’t bring it up, unless they ask. Whilst you are living in their house, being cared for (emotionally and financially) by them, you do need to live under their rules. So I’d suggest that means using headphones if you want to listen to music you know they won’t like.
yea, i have my headphones in almost 24/7. in my room mostly or wjen i take my bike rides every day. the only thing im worried about is my own parents judging me.
You seem like you’re otherwise a perfectly good kid. I’m certain you’ll be fine. And so will they.
Here’s what you say: “Mom, Dad, I’m gay.” pause for effect “Just kidding! But by the way, I listen to heavy metal music.”
I was way into metal back when I was your age. Aside from the occasional Satanic baby sacrifice and orgy, I turned out completely normal.
he’s not actually sick. it’s just all that heavy metal music he’s been listening to lately…it’s changed him…
well trying that wouldnt hurt but i dont think i would say “mom, dad, im gay jk” maybe something else but that is a great idea. lead them up with something and the tell them about the music