My father nowadays strongly criticize me in a threatening way because I read webpages that are not accepted by the majority of society and share & listen songs that most people will not like. Like: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5YsCbUaf7o8
I shared it because most people may get angry at me sharing it. I like the fact that most people are driven to angry. I shared and listened it NOT because I accept what has done by A. Hitler or like the destruction that he has wrought, but because the songs has a good melody.
He says I give him the impression of that I am fan of Hitler:smack::smack::smack:
And he continues “If I get this impression, imagine what other people think about you. People think you are an national-socialist idiot. You cannot do that. You have to care what other people think and become a part of the society”. I have not changed anything he said. That’s exactly what was said by him.
And, the main reason behind the fact that he strongly criticized me was that I would automatically isolate myself from society and other people via reading & joining 4CHAN and Turkish version of 4CHAN.
I do not understand why he is so concerned about me being part of society and doing stuff not possibly being liked by many people.
I can accept he can criticize me. But why does he do this like a mad dog and threatens me?
I am 19-years-old boy and know what to do. He should mind his business.
I guess if we were an Western family, he would not interfere in my affairs like that. In Middle Eastern and Asian cultures social loyalty is of great importance. While self reliance, individuality, and responsibility are taught by American parents to their children, family loyalty is the greatest lesson taught in my country. And if you act in an anarchy-like way in my country, you will get punished by, extremely harshly.
People who have mindset like in my country should surrender it IMO.
By that, I mean he should let me do anything. If I do something wrong, I will face consequences of my action, not he.
What do you think about me sharing and listening such music and viewing 4CHAN-like webpages? Does he has a right to criticize me? What I am doing is right? Should he mind his own business? What would you do if your 19-years old son listened such music and viewed such websites?