How long do I wait before I accept that he's just not into me?

[Cat_Whisperer]

@Scribble

Well, I went on two more first dates yesterday - one afternoon coffee, and one late night snack. The results:

First guy: Ugh!

Second guy: Meh.

“Meh” might not really be what he’s really like, though. He’d had a horrible day and told me towards the end of our date that he had a pounding headache. I’m not sure anyone can be a riveting conversationalist under those conditions, and I give him a lot of credit for not canceling on me. I’d be willing to try another get - together with him.

Definitely give him another chance - I don’t get migraines, but I do get pounding headaches, and I can assure you that me with a headache is not Regular Me.

@QuickSilver

It’s like falling off a bicycle.

Heh.

@Leaffan

^Good advice. I’ll try to remember this when I finally do jump in the pool.

And no dick pics.

[Vita_Beata]

@Scribble

Well, I went on two more first dates yesterday - one afternoon coffee, and one late night snack. The results:

First guy: Ugh!

Second guy: Meh.

“Meh” might not really be what he’s really like, though. He’d had a horrible day and told me towards the end of our date that he had a pounding headache. I’m not sure anyone can be a riveting conversationalist under those conditions, and I give him a lot of credit for not canceling on me. I’d be willing to try another get - together with him.

Whoo hoo, look at fabulous you sashaying about town with your multi-dating capabilities there, Scribble! Yay! Do you need PushYouDown and I to research the second guy for you? Find out if he’s a blatherskite; converser, discourser?

[Mavic_Chen]

Big hug? Call me? I’d probably have got off the train with you