last had sex: this morning, about 6am (my fav time)
longest dry spell (since losing virginity): about 6 weeks
number of partners: with whom I’ve had intercourse, or do other intimate activites count? 3 all the way, probably 150 or more doing other things (fellatio, handjobs, cunnilingus, frottage, etc., etc.)
fav position: doggie, but cunnilingus is a very close second
fav experience: getting my first handjob
advice: tell her to talk with him and practice stopping several times just before he comes. He’ll get better control. (maybe)
I use the Starr definition of sex as including both intercourse and everything else as opposed to the Clinton version of requiring penile-vaginal penetration.
How long has it been since you have had sex? About 18 or 20 hours.
What is the longest amount of time you have done without? Not counting the 18.5 years I spent a virgin, longest time without so far is about 6 weeks. Actually, that’s my regular spacing. 6 weeks of abstinence, a weekend of sex. 6 weeks of abstinence, a weekend of sex. Damn the 430 miles between me and Gunslinger!
How many partners have you had in your life? One.
Favorite position? Don’t have enough experience to answer that yet.
Favorite experience Hmmm… I haven’t that much experience, and they were all good, but if I had to pick just one, well, I had a grand old time in the parking lot of a bowling alley on Labor Day weekend…
Hmmm… I just did some research and apparently it’s been exactly 13 months and 13 days since last I made the beast with two backs. What that means, I know not.
A voice in the back of my head is telling me not to do this…
**How Long has it been since you have had sex? **About ten days.
**What is the longest amount of time you have done without. **About six months.
Or, looking at it from another perspective, the last ten days. One never knows if the last time will be the last time…
**How many partners have you had in your life **One.
**Favorite position **Decisions, decisions… Her on top.
**Favorite experience **The last time we did it outdoors.
You’ve gotten some great advice already on this question. They must discuss this, somewhere other than in their bed. If he loves her, he’ll want to know that this is important to her. (I’m in a similar situation: my partner has health problems. Not serious, but sometimes inconvenient.)
You’ve been a little vague, and I confess I’m not sure what the problem is. Apparently I’m not the only one, from the varying replies you’re getting. If he ahem can’t get started, then viagra is one of several options; if he ahem finishes too soon, there is another set of options, including topical anaesthetics and condoms. If he simply doesn’t want to, or doesn’t feel like it very often, well, that defies any simple answers. Either way, they need to talk to each other, and probably then to his physician.
Did it look nice? It wasn’t too expensive, right? Did it have another shrub beside it, only slightly higher so you get the two-level effect with a little path running down the middle?
What is the longest amount of time you have done without. Two years
How many partners have you had in your life Nope. Not gonna answer that one.
Favorite position Missionary, but me on top is a close second.
Favorite experience Hard to articulate. Like many people on the boards, I’m in an LDR. I’d have to say that the first time with him ranks right up there.
**Also… my friend is a newlywed (she is 35 hubby is 30) he has no stamina… it is driving her crazy any advice (besides viagra) I do not think she wants to “offend him”
I would be blunt and say take something, but she is way to kind ** Perhaps your friend should discuss this with her husband?
I don’t have any advice from experience. I understand there’s a lovely gel available that will not numb the skin, but lessen sensation.
you have had sex? Way too long. About 8 months now. (I’ll probably be asking for advice soon)
What is the longest amount of time you have done without? Last 8 months.
How many partners have you had in your life? A lot. 40-50.
Favorite position? Any.
Favorite experience? I don’t know if it was my favorite, but, letting my wife explore her fem-dom side was probably the most interesting and unusual. I’m not into pain, so that part didn’t turn me on, but the rest was good. I agreed to submit for a whole weekend, and all in all, she was very creative. She got into the role playing, and really got off, so that made it exciting for me. Ah, the things we do for love!
Like racinchikki, I’m using the ‘if one person physically helps the other to orgasm, it’s sex’ definition, FWIW.
How long has it been since you have had sex? About 14 hours.
What is the longest amount of time you have done without? About 3 years.
How many partners have you had in your life? Ten.
Favorite position? There’s a lot to be said for the missionary position.
Favorite experience? When I discovered that one GF had orgasms when I came in her mouth.
my friend is a newlywed; [hubby] has no stamina… Depends on what you mean here. I’m going to guess that she’s ready for more pretty quickly, while he’s done for awhile after one pop. If that also kills his interest in further playing around for considerably longer than she’s happy with, then that’s something they need to talk out how to deal with; outside suggestions won’t be good for much. If his spirit is willing but the flesh is weak, so to speak, that’s when he should be using his tongue and fingers to bring her off some more, and when he’s worn out that way, she can masturbate while he watches. A bit of all that should bridge the gap until he’s ready for seconds.
**How long has it been since you have had sex? ** 9 days, and no, it was not with GingerOfTheNorth, gosh darned it!
What is the longest amount of time you have done without? 11 months, between the first and the second lucky ladies.
How many partners have you had in your life? I can count them all on one hand, if you let me use it more than once.
Favorite position? Kinda up on my knees, straddling her lower leg as she lays on her side, her upper leg drawn up toward her chest just a little. I’d draw a picture, but just use your imagination.
Favorite experience? Nonya bidness. But probably the next one.
Another ones of “those” polls, eh? Isn’t this an MPSIM? ;]
How long has it been since you have had sex?
Letsee, Sunday night would be… about 36 hours.
What is the longest amount of time you have done without.
Previous to my current girlfriend, I was on a nearly 3-year dry spell. Whuf. Even worse, after she’s gone, I can see the possibility of that kind of thing happening again.
How many partners have you had in your life
Current girlfriend is #3.
Favorite posistion
Really don’t care. At this point I’m happy I’m getting any at all.
Favorite experience
Ain’t tellin’. ;]
*Also… my friend is a newlywed (she is 35 hubby is 30) he has no stamina… it is driving her crazy any advice (besides viagra) I do not think she wants to “offend him”.
I would be blunt and say take something, but she is way to kind.
*
If she’s not willing to ask him about it, it’s not going to get better very fast, if at all. He’s not psychic and he can’t know what she wants unless she lets him know. Sheesh, why do chicks have such a hard time with this? TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT! I like to please you! But if you won’t tell me what it is you like, I’m forced back on trial and error - and that’s a very slow process!
-Ben
Elaspsed time since: About a week. My wife screwed up her back the day before Thanksgiving, so no bouncy-bouncy. Hopefully by tonight the muscle relaxants will have kicked-in. Plus our new matress got delivered today, time for a test-drive.
Longest dry-spell: hmmm…prolly in the 9-12 month range, I’m horrible with dates.
Total partners: I can count them on one hand, and I don’t need to use it more than once.
Favorite position: Up until now I’d say anything that allows tab A into slot B, but I’m going to have to try UncleBill’s fave, I can picture it, and it sounds interesting.
How long since you have had sex? Also 9 days. Also not with GingerOfTheNorth. Sounds like last weekend was a busy one for a lot of Dopers!
What is the longest amount of time you have done without. 16 months…and somebody was about to get hurt, lemme tell ya.
How many partners have you had in your life Umm…a lot. I was in the Navy for seven years. Nuff said.
Favorite position Missionary gets me where I need to go most reliably, but depending on my mood, a few others are quite nice.
Favorite experience Lots to choose from there…the first one that comes to mind is the “Standing O” I got recently…I was having a rather vocal good time and apparently was audible from the street outside the hotel, because a bunch of people started applauding and cheering. That was damn funny.
How many? I’ve lost count. Although they were all very special.
Position? Missionary, ironically enough.
Favorite? Many. But as for recent favorite, I’ll go with a spontaneous, impromptu, unexpected (surprised myself, definatly surprised him) and (despite the akward position- front seat of a car. No, not a moving car) highly sucessful blowjob. Sure, I didn’t get anything out of it but his heartfelt gratitude and the Deep Inner Peace That Comes From Bringing Joy Into Another’s Life, but, hey, that just the kind of gal I am.
** Perhaps your friend should discuss this with her husband?