How Long has it been since

you have had sex?

What is the longest amount of time you have done without.

How many partners have you had in your life

Favorite posistion

Favorite experience
I am sure these questions have been asked before. (sorry)

Also… my friend is a newlywed (she is 35 hubby is 30) he has no stamina… it is driving her crazy any advice (besides viagra) I do not think she wants to “offend him”
I would be blunt and say take something, but she is way to kind :wink:

I guess I should answer my own questions---- even tho I don’t wanna :wink:

It has been almost 2 yrs
2 yrs
one
Doggie style what a term
have to think about it…
Pathetic huh ~sigh~

as far as my friend goes, I suggested herbal remedies and ALOT of forplay. I am not a guy, so I really cant give her any advice from that view.

…you have had sex?
About 8 days.
What is the longest amount of time you have done without.
16 years, but I guess you mean after losing my virginity? Then maybe a couple of months, I don’t really recall.

How many partners have you had in your life
Too many.

Favorite posistion
Anywhere in the same room with my partner works for me.

Favorite experience
That passionate, beginning of a new relationship kind of sex when falling in love with someone.

*Also… my friend is a newlywed (she is 35 hubby is 30) he has no stamina… it is driving her crazy any advice *
For me it helps to focus on my partner and giving her pleasure, then I can last about forever.

**you have had sex?**Approx. One Year

**What is the longest amount of time you have done without.**After losing virginity…Approx. One Year

How many partners have you had in your life One

Favorite position Missionary, haven’t tried 'em all though.

Favorite experienceYes I have one, but describing it would probably not impress anyone else.
**Also… my friend is a newlywed (she is 35 hubby is 30) he has no stamina… it is driving her crazy any advice (besides viagra) I do not think she wants to “offend him”
I would be blunt and say take something, but she is way to kind :wink: ** Sorry, I got nothing. Never been a problem for me.

Happy now?

Happy now?

Well, I was not un-happy but thanks for asking :wink:

I would be happier if I would meet someone, fall in love and have tons of sex~~LOL

You will meet someone. Just keep your eyes open and your hormones in check. And don’t look to hard. Debij came into my life while I wasn’t looking at all.

Good luck.

~Sky~ you should tell your friend to talk to her husband. Just don’t do it in bed, or around any sexual encounters or he might get the wrong idea that she’s rejecting him. Lack of stamina could be an indication of an illness (other than sexual dysfunction). By having that talk with him, it could actually save his life.

If she still doesn’t want to say anything, perhaps if she spoke to her family doctor - assuming that he goes there too.

Thanks for the responses :slight_smile: Thats cool you are together :wink:

I told her it could be medical. He is finishing the job before she is done so to speak— They had sex for a while, then went celibate for over a yr, then got married and May and no w sex is to quick for her taste!

My ex was the same way but he had a thyroid problem and he had done enough drugs in his life to kill himself much less his sex drive (and brain cells)

My hormones are still in check, I just hope I find someone before flippin menopause strikes :eek: (yes I know that is a while off, but 2 yrs is a long time too!!)

15 months, 1 week, 3 days, and 7 hours…but who’s counting?

3 miserable years.

About 30 people.

Depends on my mood. Woman on top is great. I like doggie-style, too. Then again…
It depends on my mood and how much time we’ve got.

Sorry, can’t go there right now.

Communication!
Communication!
Communication!

I was hoping that Reeder and DebbiJ would ahve answered the questions, so we could see if their answers to #1 match. :slight_smile:

Since you have had sex?
About 7 hours ago

What is the longest amount of time you have done without.
About a month and a half

How many partners have you had in your life.
2

Favorite posistion.
Girl on top Ahhh yeah

Favorite experience.
Doing on it on the fifty yard line of the BSU football field or in the lounge of a college dorm at 10:30 in the morning (I’m a bit of an exhibitionist)

About the only advice I could give to your friend is have them have sex… alot. Seriously though I’m a guy and I have no idea how to deal with it. Either your blessed with stamina or not. Who knows :confused:

Zero

A life time

Zero
Zero
Zero

Bleh maybe i should become a monk or something , living in the middle of nowhere and having a crap job does not do wonders for your love life.

you have had sex?
–as of this posting, 1 hour

What is the longest amount of time you have done without.
–back when I was married, I’d only get it once a month…

How many partners have you had in your life
–19 (give or take 2 or 3)

Favorite posistion
–69

Favorite experience
–the first time I did it with my new boyfriend (new…we’ve been together for a few months)

I am sure these questions have been asked before. (sorry)
–no problem :slight_smile:

(for reference im a 28 year old white divorced male)

  1. 7 hours or so
  2. 1 and ahalf years (approx) during/after divorce
  3. 8 (5 of those o
  4. long answer: several
    short answer: doggy
  5. tied and blindfolder
  6. i last longer “on the bottum”…something to with gravity i think :slight_smile: i pretty much cant “go” while standing and as someone else has stated, LOTS AND LOTS OF SEX will give a man stamina…you just have to work at it…he shouldnt complain much
    dead0man

you have had sex? About a week

**What is the longest amount of time you have done without.**years. none of yer dam business. get off my porch!!!

How many partners have you had in your life About a dozen.

Favorite posistion Me standing, woman seated on a table or countertop.

Favorite experienceWhen I was in love.
The stamina can improve with practice. Have him wear an extra thick condom. Don’t let him stop after he comes. He should be able to get hard again pretty quickly, but won’t be as sensitive.

you have had sex?
Why, yes, I have! Just last night actually.

What is the longest amount of time you have done without.
10 months was the longest I went without but I was pregnant and the doctor advised against it because I was kind of high risk. I was newly divorced and wasn’t with anyone at the time and didn’t really want to anyway so it didn’t matter. Before and after that time though the longest was a couple weeks.

How many partners have you had in your life
More than 10 and less than 50

Favorite position
I like every position imaginable. Kama Sutra is my friend.

Favorite experience
My SO and I said “I love you” for the first time during sex. It was really good that time… and every other time since then.

I also did it in my bathroom once during an after hours party I was giving and there were 10+ other people in the living room at the time. I had a really small apartment and they all knew what we were doing in there and we received a standing ovation when we walked out. I still catch a lot of shit for that even though it was almost 10 years ago.

he has no stamina…
Lots of foreplay and lots of sex is the only advice I have. I’ve never known anyone with this problem so I’m not sure what advice to give.

you have had sex?
Right now… 2 months, 3 weeks, 4 days.

What is the longest amount of time you have done without? Since losing virginity, 7 months (if you count oral) or 12 months (if you count intercourse)

How many partners have you had in your life?
2. Hope it stays there.

Favorite position? Heck, I have to pick ONE? Hmm. Can’t, sorry.

Favorite experience? Same as above, had a lot of fun times, can’t really pick any one out.

waterj2, the answer to no. 1 is … the last time Reeder did.

favorite position: any one with Reeder in it.

Favorite experience: the first time I met Reeder in Washington DC.

:slight_smile:

Debij and I live 400 miles apart. Our amorous liasons are few and far between. The last time I did was the last she did.

My favorite? The time I walked through the doors in Union Station and looked into her eyes for the first time. Then we kissed madly and passionately.

Position? Missionary. So I can gaze into her eyes.

I’m only replying so I can weigh in on the stamina thing. At least that’s what I keep telling myself.

  1. About 36 hours.
  2. Without anything… uhhh… 5 months. Without intercourse, but with other stuff… the longest nearly-3 years of my life. Ugh.
  3. Intercourse… nine, I think. Other stuff, no intercourse, add on another, uh, 6. Give or take a couple (it’s probably higher than that, but I have a tendency to block things out).
  4. Depends on mood. Most of the time, doggy style. But I’ve developed a real attachment to this lovely swing Mr. Bobkitty bought me. :wink:
  5. The time I spent 15 hours in a down-and-dirty, no-holds-barred, continuous lovefest with a guy I’d had a crush on for years. That was my re-introduction after the ‘dry spell’- DAMN it was fun. 'Course he flew home the next day and I haven’t seen him since, but oh the memories.

Now, as for your friend. I agree that it may be a medical condition, and he should get it checked into. If not, then I recommend activities that will increase his stamina- tie him up and tease the hell out of him but don’t let him orgasm til you want him to; have him masturbate to orgasm before engaging in intercourse… the second (or third) time 'round usually takes longer. Has she perhaps entertained the thought that he either just doesn’t care, or has no clue she’s not happy? He gets his jollies, after all, and from your post it seems that she’s not openly complaining to him. Maybe he just doesn’t know it’s a problem. Worse comes to worst, how about slipping him some anti-depressents? Get the right one and he’ll go all night. :smiley:

-BK