Baby Smith was born in July. SmithWife shut me off in mid-May. Sex resumed in September, the frequency of which has been approximately 2X/Month. The May to Sept. dry spell was the longest I have gone without sex since College Days - 1991.
my longest pre-marriage dry spell was 6 months. It was fairly voluntary. I had broken up with the guy I thought was the love of my life, and actually LOST my sex-drive (that’s pretty serious for me. . .it’s like losing my appetite!:))
Since I’ve been married, we went through about a 3 month thing, where I kept getting sick with kidney stones; it seemed like the few times during those three months that I wasn’t sick, he had a sinus infection or some such! It was a long three months, made longer by the fact that we were still sleeping next to each other, cuddling, etc.
I’ll let you know whenever the current one ends. Thankfully (and that’s only from reading other responses), at least mine started in this millenium (and by my choice, I suppose).
(This thread should somehow develop into a matchmaker, ending a lot of streaks. Hot, steamy, doper mercy sex.)
Since oral sex, about 3 months; since intercourse, 9 months. Both streaks are current, and it seems like it’s been forever. Funny thing is (here’s where it becomes clear that I’m in my late 30’s and not a teenager), what I miss most is the non-sexual part of sex: holding, hugging, cuddling, sleeping together, etc. Of course, I miss the sex, too, but if I had to choose one or the other right now, I’d take care of my heart before my penis.