How long was your longest 'dry spell'

That’s NOT Funny!!! :wink:

Baby Smith was born in July. SmithWife shut me off in mid-May. Sex resumed in September, the frequency of which has been approximately 2X/Month. The May to Sept. dry spell was the longest I have gone without sex since College Days - 1991.

my longest pre-marriage dry spell was 6 months. It was fairly voluntary. I had broken up with the guy I thought was the love of my life, and actually LOST my sex-drive (that’s pretty serious for me. . .it’s like losing my appetite!:))
Since I’ve been married, we went through about a 3 month thing, where I kept getting sick with kidney stones; it seemed like the few times during those three months that I wasn’t sick, he had a sinus infection or some such! It was a long three months, made longer by the fact that we were still sleeping next to each other, cuddling, etc.

It will be 3 years Jan. 30th. What a date to remember :frowning:

4 months.

As she was my first “real” girlfriend I’m hoping I wind up like Unclebill. :slight_smile:

3 years and 3 months, give or take. Not even as much as a good make-out in the meantime… :frowning:

::looks around and compares notes with the other guys::

9467000 minutes and counting, of course for quite a bit of that time I wouldn’t have been interested in it.

I’ll let you know whenever the current one ends. Thankfully (and that’s only from reading other responses), at least mine started in this millenium (and by my choice, I suppose).

(This thread should somehow develop into a matchmaker, ending a lot of streaks. Hot, steamy, doper mercy sex.) :smiley:

After my first time (before it was 23 years, 9 months), roughly 3 years.

The longest for me has been almost a year, twice. I didn’t have to wait that long but I did. The worst thing is that I was in college at the time.

about 5 years

Well this is a great thread, I don’t feel like such a freak anymore. I think it’s been about 6 years.

Since oral sex, about 3 months; since intercourse, 9 months. Both streaks are current, and it seems like it’s been forever. Funny thing is (here’s where it becomes clear that I’m in my late 30’s and not a teenager), what I miss most is the non-sexual part of sex: holding, hugging, cuddling, sleeping together, etc. Of course, I miss the sex, too, but if I had to choose one or the other right now, I’d take care of my heart before my penis.

Want another dry spell? Other than telemarketers, I haven’t had a phone call for me at home since September. You can imagine the other.

About five years so far.
:sigh:
about twelve since it was worth the effort.
:heavy sigh:

With someone I actually cared about? - almost eight years now :frowning:

With anything qualifying as a warm body with a hard penis? Not quite 6 months at any time since Junior High School…

OK, time to stop thinking about this now.

Well, you know Rushgeekgirl, I’m not that far away and we could both end our dry spells. :wink:

Two weeks tomorrow morning. My three-year-long relationship just ended, and I’m thinking it’s going to be a long while before I’ll get some again.

My libido will start to relax eventually, right? I can’t stay this anxious for however many months/years it takes, right? Right?

Every wants to be like UncleBill!

A little over 3 years - and I’m close to rebreaking the record.

Not the least bit by choice.

Well, when I first became sexually active I had a dry spell for about 2 years from 14-16. Since 16 I haven’t had to wait longer than a month.