None, by choice, and I’m proud of it. I’m 35 years old, and single.
FTR, this is what hooked the last woman that I previously dated. She was extremely attractive, and men were constantly trying to get her into bed. As for the woman which whom I now have the beginnings of a romance… well, this is what hooked her as well.
Female.
I don’t think I would necessarily have been opposed to the idea of random-encounter sex, except I was never attracted to anyone enough to get nekkid with them until Mr. Armadillo. And then… yay, pre-marital sex. As it turns out, I’ve got a far higher sex drive than he does ;).
Oh. Also, I turned 21 in November. Have yet to become a dirty, street-walking whore. I’ll keep you posted.
I agree that the first question is somewhat vague…if you define it ‘People of the opposite sex who have allowed me to fondle their genitalia’ the count would be 12. If you expand it to non-genital erogenous zones the count would be around 15-16. If you only count sexual penetration, it would be 9. If you only count sex that led to me having an orgasm, it would be 7.
What other people have told me about my drugged up 80’s lifestyle? Scary. Yes, I tested for HIV when I started getting serious with my last exGF. I had previously been tested in 1986 because of my doc’s concerns with my lifestyle at that time.
I tested negative and I am no longer a drugged up whore. (Actually, I haven’t been that since I fell for this nice Christian girl in about '88)
As a 29 year old male (for another 8 days), I’m only including the people with which I have had full sexual intercourse:
7 that I consider. There was Spring Break 1991, when a friend and I went to Florida, and hit every coastal party town. He and I essentially slept with anything that moved during that week, and, in some occasions, no names were even exchanged. So I don’t count those.