How many partners have you had?

  1. 30ish. Commencing, oddly enough, at age 20.
  2. Female.

BTW, I’m blaming it on the '80s, too.

Jess (who had a pretty good time in the '80s, big hair notwithstanding.)

8, but if you want to use that stupid broad deffintion then I’ve played with 5 or so other women. No woman that I haven’t had sex with has done anything but kiss me.

hetro male

29

If you are just wanting sex (not a relationship) my advice would be; be direct and honest. Nothing is wrong with politely asking for what you want. And yes, I know you’re male, and for good or bad, there is a finer line between being direct and being what some girls will think is rude. But as a woman, I would prefer THAT to insincere flattery/romance and games.

1: 9 women, I’m more or less certain of that. Details are blurry but I did a visualisation experiment.

2: Male

3: 30

In my case, some years in the 90s went by really fast, but I was generally too drunk for much to happen.

  1. 74 (if you count goats. 0 if you don’t)

  2. Billy-goat

  3. 2 1/2 (that’s 14.34629 recurring in goat years)

You know, I read that, and thought, “If you make the guys in your fraternity laugh, they’ll get you laid? Cool fraternity…”

How do we know how many there are? Well, I don’t know exactly. I know basically all the people I have bottomed for or at least could recognize their face. I took it as an average of how many people I tended to sleep with in a month. Some days as many as around 10. On the days when I wasn’t slutting around I had a steady 1 that would be there for my usual fun. I averaged maybe 10 or so a month with it fluctuating between 0 and 20 (not counting repeats) but I am not exactly sure of that either. So that is roughly 120 a year for 8 years, a year and a half of monogomy and now I have slowed down to 4 repeated sex partners with an extra thrown in every few months for the last few years. So that would be roughly 960 over an 8 year time span, plus the 12 or so from before I turned 17 and became really sexually active, plus about 15 more from the last couple of years. Totalling 987. That number may be high or low. That includes anything from a handjob on up. If I just count oral sex on up the number would be about half. If I only count intercourse it would be maybe half that again.