Briefly, I am in between apartments this month, so my friend has lent me the use of her couch for the interim. By the time I’m all moved into my new place next week, I will have stayed with her for a total of 3 weeks.
She asked me at the outset to give her some money to help offset the cost of groceries/water/electric I have used during my stay with her, but nobody mentioned a price so I turn to you for your opinions. I don’t want to lowball her but money’s also tight right now, so I don’t want to offer too large a sum.
Basically, I have tried to minimize my intrusion into her life. I don’t eat her food very often, actually I think it’s been a maybe 6-8 sandwiches, a couple of bowls of chili, a decent amount of tea, and some snacks here and there. I have done 3 loads of laundry, which also included some of her kids’ clothes to save water and electric. I’ve charged my phone twice and watch a couple of hours of tv per day as I’m falling asleep, though I always set the sleep timer so it’s not on all night.
In addition, I’ve tried to help with some household chores and taking care of the kids. So I’ve done some dishes, vacuumed and mopped, changed a lot of diapers and gotten the kids snacks and put the youngest down for her nap, etc. I also put my pillows and blankets away every morning and don’t leave a mess in the bathroom. That said, I don’t think I’ve been as helpful as I could or should be. I’m going through a rough patch in my life, with some personal problems on top of working and going to school full time, and I’ve been pretty depressed which for me = lazy. For example, the floors really needed to be mopped for several days before I actually did it. See, my friend is 8 months pregnant with twins and needs some help around the house and with her kids, and like I said, I definitely should have been more helpful.
So… how much should I offer? I was thinking maybe $150, because I’ve probably only eaten $20 or $30 worth of her food, used maybe $30 worth of water, and I’m not really sure how much electric. Is that a decent price, or is it to low or too high?