[sub]I give almost daily.[/sub]
We’re a long-distance relationship, but when we get together, usually we both perform services. I’d say it’s about equal, though we have such a short time together it’s not a lot compared to other people.
Thank goodness we both enjoy receiving/giving. Though I do go by that adage that it’s “more blessed to give than receive.”
I’ve been single for two years – consequently, no oral sex for meeeee
Well well!
Let’s see, it will be 7 years this weekend since either happened. But during that relationship, it was pretty much an even trade, 4 or 5 nights a week.
Get/give every time.
Give 5-6 times a week.
Get 3-4 times a month.
I’m more eager and willing to do it. I ask him daily if he wants a BJ. I’m more shy when it comes to asking him to do it.
Get/give just about every time, usually a couple times a week, even more just before Hoover week.
I can’t believe I’m answering this.
I give about 5 - 10 times a month, (though I don’t count) and I get um…let’s see (does some averaging) about one time a year.
I’m not bitter. No, really. It doesn’t do all that much for me. If hubby shows up, don’t tell him I posted in here, he’d murderize me! (I’m joshing).
Give about 80% of the time we get busy, get about the same. When we are together, that is a lot.
Frequency of meeting depends on flight schedules more than anything. When we’re together, 100% of the time.
Having seen hillbilly queen ;there is something seriously wrong with this picture! I hope that wasn’t too out of line. if so sorry.
Me everytime I have sex I give and recieve! I couldn’t imagine it any other way. :shrugs shoulders:
Give - more than half of the times we have sex.
Get - 5-10% of the time.
I´m a married male, if that adds any wortwile info to the numbers.
Giving and receiving is always included - 100% of the time. SO and I have sex 5 or 6 times a week.
We are not that into oral, but since you asked got 40x given 8x always as foreplay.
Well, today makes six months and one day since the ex bwoke my wittle heawt :(, so lately, it’s been nothing.
But I love love LOVE to give, so when I was dating, it was once in the morning, once in the eveing, and anytime in between, so an average of 4-10 times a week (we usually spent four days together). Receiving was much the same, but not nearly as important.
Me too! My numbers are about like these. Hmmm…never realized I was getting the seriously raw end of the deal!
My WAG-the penis protrudes, and is therefore easier to get to, and much more obvious about :ahem: begging for attention than the hoo-ha?
OK, let me just say, so that all you people out there know it:
Not all women like being on the receiving end of oral sex. I am one of those women. It’s nice, it’s pleasant enough, but frankly, it’s never going to ‘do the trick.’
Most men think, “Oh, she’s just never had it done by me! I’m the best!” Poor pets. I know they try and try, but it’s just NOT going to happen.
I wonder if it’s something about the way some women are designed, the placement/sensitivity of their clitorises or something. I don’t know.
I don’t know too many women out there who can have an orgasm from ORAL alone, and even fewer who can have one from intercourse alone.
So, I don’t feel bitter at all about getting far more than I give. I ‘get’ in other ways, so everyone is happy.
I’m with Anahita. Receiving is nice once in a while, but it just doesn’t get me off (sorry to be so blunt ) the way other activities do. But I do love giving and that’s usually a prelude to sex everytime–which is about twice a day.
I am seriously disturbed by my…uh…low number of occasions to give or receive…uh…compared to some folks here. I thought I was weird for wanting it more. Huh.
I guess I am tired a lot.