give: 1-2 times/month
get: 3-7 times/month
Recently, not at all. Oh well; I have high hopes for the future.
I give 5-6 times a month. I get…maybe once or twice a month.
I give about twice a month.
I get…never. But I’m OK with that. Honestly.
I don’t like to be on the receiving end, but I love giving it, so I get it never, and give it about once a week.
Oh, about 30-40% of the time, always as prelude to deeper things.
Get - 2 or 3 times a month. Give - 2-3 times a week.
Great. Now that I’m keeping score, I’m all bitter and everything.
Give- 3-5 times a month
Get- 1-3 times a year
Get: 3-4 times a month
Give: 3-4 times a week
Now, these numbers don’t seem to shocking at first…until one steps back and sees my big, honkin’ penis. Yup, I’m in that rarity of males that give far more than I get, and I’m fine with that. I love giving, and she loves getting, and we both think that a penis in one’s mouth is…kinda icky. I always (well…90% of the time) bring her to orgasm, but she never brings me that far, it’s just used for foreplay, I prefer to orgasm during sex. Maybe I’m just odd…
I only post this to skew the statistical sample of the first few posts–a holdover from my younger days when I was a big fan of chaos; [now I just find it confusing]
Anyway---------------------------------
----------------------I have neither ever given nor received oral sex, but, naturally I’m looking forward to both.
And I’m not calling for any ‘volunteers;’ I have someone in mind, and for now, I wait.
Well I give as well and as often I get and both activities average about 2.5 times a week.
And yes the hubby is very very good if I do say so myself.
Give: 0.3-3.5 times a month
Get: I tried it either twice or three times a long time ago. :barf smilie:
I wouldn’t give really except that she kind of likes it and I like to make her feel good, but it doesn’t do much for me in and of itself. (I gather that for some portion of other people, the giving is in and of itself pleasurable?)
My favorite for giving: things I can do with my fingertips
My favorite for getting: plain old vanilla “insert tab a into slot b”, preferably after lots of finger play.
TMI?
My answers might really skew the results, since my boyfriend and I don’t even live on the same coast, yet. When we are together, however…ummm…it’s all quite a blur, but I do think that I receive more than I give. My boyfriend really only likes it briefly, as part of foreplay, he does not like it to completion, and I have really bad TMJ problems, and therefore have severely limited range of motion with my jaw.
~V
I dont give or recieve as much as i would like… Im in a sexualy drought… I have high hopes 4 this weekend. 
Well, we’re pretty average. For both give and receive, about 1-3 times per month. It’s rather contingent on my TMJ, which right now is so bad I can barely open my mouth to bite into a sandwich, much less…well, open it for other things. You know, like a big throbbing manly DeathLlama penis. (I was going to just say “Llama penis,” but…ewwwwwwww)
Um…come to think of it, this sore jaw/swollen/can hardly open thing started around that really fun time in the shower. Dammit!
Not that a few other options aren’t available and explored.
I have no idea of the frequency /week or month… (It’s a long distance summer.) … however:
Get: almost every time
Give: Not often enough – I really like giving, but she has a hard time believing that. But I don’t mind convincing her. 
Ruffian, my sympathies with the TMJ stuff. I know that I am not alone with my problem(my brother has it worse than I do, although I doubt he has much interest in mouthing a “big throbbing manly DeathLlama penis” - hehe), but hell if I don’t feel like I’m the only one affected by it a large portion of the time, most especially when the topic of oral sex comes up.
It, umm…just makes us have to be more creative in other ways…yeah, that’s it!
~V
[Monty Python]
You lucky bastards.
[/Monty Python]
Give-once or twice a week
Get-maybe once a month. I don’t like it that much so I rarely ask. Though I know he probably would more often if I asked him for it.
I give and/or receive head (usually both) virtually every time I have sex. Leaving aside preferences for giving vs. receiving, this is pretty much SOP for gay guys as far as I can tell.