Answering as a 32 year old guy, I can tell you I want it much less than when I was 25. Five or six times a day will do nicely now, thank you. 
Married 24-year-old checking in. I’d say I usually want it twice a day, somtimes just once, and, when the opportunity presents itself, all day long…
26-yr-old checkin in. Twice a day? Wow! In the beginning of a relationship, maybe once a day to once every two days. I don’t think I could keep up with a twice-a-day regiment of sex. Once things lose their novelty factor, then a comfortable pace for me would be twice a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. As you can tell, there is a lot of variation on this topic. Judging by my male peers, I’d wager that most men in this age group would be happy to get sex daily, but there are definitely exceptions (like me and a couple others) who were happier on a couple times a week scale.
Hell, when I was 25, it was at least twice a day, in the morning and in the evening, and occasionally in the afternoons.
Now that I’m married once a day is all I desire.
23 here. My exgirlfriend and I used to have sex at least onece a day, and I’d say 8 times out of 10 was twice a day. If I was lucky 3 times a day. The problem now is that since we’ve broken up (about a month ago) I’ve gotten nothing. It can be very frusterating going from 2 to 0 in one day flat.
As far as enticing your man, may I suggest installing a mechanical bull in your bedroom. Nothing gets me going like seeing a woman wearing nothing but leather chaps and a smile.
25 year old checking in here.
I want it as much as possible.
My goal is to win the lottery and just stay in bed all day.
Luckily my fiance wants me and wants to have sex with me as much as I want to with her. It is good that we met each other because otherwise we might end up injurying or killing two other people (rogered to death, what a way to go :D).
On a more serious note, jay-c, if you are saying that your boyfriend does not want to have sex with you straight after you have made love, it might be that he needs a little recovery time afterwards.
Rick
It depends.
My question is, is it sex that you want, or have you mistakenly substituted sex for intimacy?
25 year old guy checkin’ in.
I had a very (somewhat embarrasingly) prolific undergraduate sex drive, as did my current SO. when we got together we were probably once a dayers, but its been about a year now and we’re a lot less frequent than that… (2-3 times a week on a good week). I have to say that i’m really okay with that. we are both kinda… i don’t want to say “OVER” sex, but its not all that much of a driving force in my day to day life, nor hers. its fun, but I honest don’t know if I could smack it up twice a day with any regularity…
of course that two new variables that probably make our situation a little different from the average 25 year olds, long term SO, and kind of a been-there-done-that attitude towards oversexedness…
I don’t know a lot of folks my ages who are nearly as horny or as sexually active as they were at 18 or 20, maybe i have a skewed sample group or something…
CJ
Checking in again…
Thank you all for your input.
RickQ - It’s not a matter of his recovery time. I’m talking shagging in the morning, then me wanting it again in the evening - usually a 10 to 12 hour time gap.
Urban Ranger - It’s not a substitution of sex for intimacy, either. Our relationship, on a whole, is very intimate, with or without the sex. There’s lots of lovesick staring into each other’s eyes, handholding, small thoughtful gestures, etc. I think he’s just too damn sexy for his own good. I can’t have him walk by me without me wanting to pounce on him. I just wish his libido were as high as mine.
On the upside, I did try to talk to him about it, and I have seen some improvement. It’s just difficult to talk to a man about these things - they get offended easily and are very sensitive.
im actually having a similar problem with my boyfriend. i have all kinds of issues and this just makes it even worse, which isnt attractive to men OR women. so im screwing myself here, literally.
Do zombies have sex?
So how much windburn did you endure?
Not much difference between then and now, this Guy wants sex everyday as a 25 year old and 40 sumpin’. Well, maybe every other day… but multiple times.
In my experience it depends on which credit cards he takes.
I honestly want to understand the mindset of someone who resurrects a thread older than Dick Clark’s balls just to post three short, wretchedly-written sentences. If this is enough of an issue for you that you’d search the internet for it and then SIGN UP FOR A FORUM just to POST about it, can’t you do better than that?
I swear to God - really - and I actually believe in God, unlike 99% of the people on this forum - I want to understand the motivation and the frame of mind behind doing something like this.
Don’t you put any effort into anything?
I’m almost 40 (Good grief, typing that is painful!) and want it all the time. My partner is 6 years younger and is happy with about twice a week and always has been that way.
There really is no normal.
They either did not notice the post dates, don’t know that zombie threads are bad form round these parts, maybe rather than post War And Peace they want to test the waters to see if anyone is still interested.
Hell its happened to me, you search google about an issue and oh a thread I’ll ask this poster a question…hmm two days no answer ah topic created 2005 :smack:
Eh, most people dont bother noticing the date and time on a post. I didn’t notice this post was old until I saw that pezpunk had posted because I know that guy hasn’t been around here for ages.
I am kind of curious about how the relationship went for the OP and the guy. It’d be pretty crazy if they were actually still together.
The last time I had sex I was 39 and that was before this thread existed.
Even assuming this, shouldn’t most people be expected to at least glance at the thread, and, after doing so, get a general sense of the level of discourse here and try to make their very first post on the forum with a basic modicum of sentence structure and writing technique - as well as some idea to put forth - or at the very least, a “hi, I’m new here, but I noticed this thread on Google and wanted to comment. Here’s my situation:”?
Is it so much to ask that people conduct themselves like they have a fucking soul?