She has levied sexual assault charges against me.
I have already contacted FIRE.
My best to you Cardboard. Hoping the case gets dropped like a hot potato as soon as she turns her attention on whatever attorney “saves” her.
You should probably stop posting here with legal stuff pending.
I will, thanks.
Uh… You DID save every single one of those texts she sent you, yes? And every one of those notes and post-its? And you have your room-mate who helped you shove her out the door that one time, who might put in a word in your defense?
I’m wondering if you followed any of our suggestions - saving text messages, speaking to the RA, etc. We told you to be overly cautious in case something like this happened. Do you have all of her text messages? Did you talk to someone?
I’m sorry this is happening to you. Have your roommate go with you, since they were there for some of it, and show them the text messages, tell them your side of the story. Good luck.
Stop this. Just stop. Stop. Stop.
Do NOT explain your viewpoints to her.
Look, my sympathy is probably more with her than you: She’s crazy, but you don’t even have that excuse. For God’s sake, don’t try to explain your viewpoints to someone you don’t want to have a relationship with.
Explaining our viewpoints is something we do when we care what the other person thinks. Do you care what she thinks? If you do, then have sex with her: she seems to have made it clear that is what would please her. If you don’t care what she thinks, then stop acting like you do: she’s got enough problems without you adding to her level of confusion.
I have saved everything. This is the real deal and without your help so far I would probably have done this all wrong. You cannot fathom how helpful you guys have been.
I have no doubt that you have taken a lot from this thread.
And yet, we stand in the tall shadow of what he leaves behind.
Is she claiming that the assault took place on September 29th, at, say, around 2pm?
… What.
What is FIRE? (And good luck, Cardboard.)
Since this has reportedly turned into a real world legal issue I’m going to close this. If the OP has a good reason to open this back up he can PM me.