This an excerpt from a message I posted to Gay Black Men, specifically a Guy named Deondray Gossette who created a show about life on the “DL”, which is soooooo destructive! love to hear the feedback. Thanx!
**ATTENTION BLACK GAY MEN I respectfully ask you to read ALL of this, & try to be open-minded. PLEASE give Me your feedback: This is a SERIOUS discussion that needs to happen, & should have happened many moons ago. No disrespect, only trying to build understanding of ourselves as a Community. Thank You ALL so very much… :
Ok. So My turn. Let’s please address Homosexual Black Men… My passion for this, is because I am saddened to see my bruthas like yourself be so fooled. you think because you spew out all this information makes you justified & validated in the lifestyle you participate in. I certainly hope you do realize that yourself & all these other GBM are pawns. There has been an attack on BM masculinity & sexuality for ever. There was a plot begun in 1969 to increase Homosexuality in the Black Community. Fathers were taken out the home, due to strict Govt assistance programs that required NO MAN could live in the household. Many blacks being lower class, needed these programs to provide for themselves & children. This was the beginnning of the single mother culture we currently reside in. When you match that w/the major push of the prison industrial complex & locking up Black Men at historical rates, you have a HUGE problem.
With Black Men being removed from the home & lives of their children, the whole family & community suffers. As children develop & grow, science says they tend to emulate the same sex parent, & basically shadow them. When you jave little boys, & there is no Man, masculine figure in his life guiding him, supporting him, loving him, & showing him how to handle his Manhood, & what that means. The boy will tend to take on effeminate characteristics of his mother/grandmother/sisters/aunts whom are most likely the most influental & support system in their life. These boys, become more & more distant from manhood. They may begin to feel an attraction to Men, in the way they know their female family members to. Children are EXTREMELY impressionable. when you remove such an important piece to their identity as a Man, their father, it’s detrimental. We are in a society, that further celebrates & reinforces Homosexual lifestyles. Everywhere you look, it’s becoming normal, when it is definitely NOT!!
Just look at your show, this type of thing is a desensitizer. Over periods of time, people get use to homosexuality as being natural & healthy. It is an underhanded approach, to over time wear down society’s sensitivity to it. These young Black Men are distanced from manhood & masculinity. They are confused, sometimes abused, & un certain of themselves. Gay Black Men prey on very young Black Men whm are in that state of confusion. The sexual curiosity the young Man may feel, eats at his conscience, & he begins lusting for other Men. Many times when those young BM take that step to CHOOSE to participate in homosexual behavior, it’s over. When you remove the Father, you much more easily destroy the family, or cause it to be dysfunctional. I certainly believe that if We had MORE Black Fathers raising Black Sons, & being active in their everyday life, the number of Homosexual/DL/Bisexual Black Men, would drop SHARPLY!
You now have all these BM out here w/vagina envy. They are basically identifying themselves as a Woman, & fail to embrace who they were created as, which is a Black Man. To the dominant society, they LOOOOOOVE to see Homosexual BM, because they are considered weak, less than a Man, non-threatening, non-intimidating, CONTROLLABLE, easily manipulated. Homosexuality is a flaw. It is rooted in mental illness, & coupled w/our problems in the Black Community, we have alot of lost, misguided, weakened Black Men(BM). They accept their fate of being homosexual, mostly because BM are hypersexual, & have issue w/their d*ck controlling their minds. They are thinking w/that perverse lust for another Man. Just as in your video, the first thing they wanted to do, is screw. That is indicative of the Black Gay crowd. GBM are V ERY VERY, promiscuous, & that is a reason for such high HIV rates. Research says that MOST of all Gay Men, will at some pont in their life, contract HIV, Hep A, or B.
Black men are being taken out in so many ways, & one of the saddest, is thru homosexuality. Many of youfeel like that is who you are, & what you are going to do. You embrace being Homosexual, before you even embrace your Black Manhood. You all are surrendering yourselfs, & accepting to commit genocide of your own race…HAPPILY. The dominant society makes you believe you are in control, but really you are being controlled. There was/is no greater threat, than an intelligent, thinking, heterosexual, strong willed, determined Black Man. your potential is boundless, & others know that expect BM don’t know it about themselves. You all are thought of as NOT Women & less than a Man. A Homosexual BM is a oke to most people, especially compared w/the historic image of BM being warriors, & protectors.
You cite all these things that supposedly go against Homosexuality being a mental illness. I never said schizo, or sociopathic, but it does meet the criteria for Mental illness. Whether or not that’s true, doesn’t mean much in the scheme of things. Homosexuality is Unnatural & Abnormal, & all about SEX. No matter what religion you believe in or don’t there is MAN & there is WOMAN…period! Man & Woman were made for each other, & to bring new life, & raise families. Where in that does Homosexuality fall??? Homosexuality was a mental flaw, & perverse lusting for the same sex. There is absolutely NOTHING natural about it. Homosexuality, is completely unproductive. it is strictly for pleasure, pereversion, & one’s inability to have self-restraint. Every feeling that a person has, does NOT mean they should act on it. Just as in your show, they chose to act on lust! I fail to see why society should see that as a good & acceptable thing!?? The Anus, is NOT a sex organ. The ONLY 2 are the penis & the vagina. Do you mean to tell Me, that you don’t think there is mental/sexual dysfunction, for people to CHOOSE, to force a body part that excretes vile, waste, & excrement from your body, as a place they want to enter!? Anal sex is EXTREMELY risky, & 90% MORE likely to pass disease than thru vaginal sex.
The anus was NOT made to be penetrated, period dot! That is the work of Men who had that flaw for wanting that type of perversion to either be penetrated anally or to penetrate anally. On top of all that, from being easy o spread disease due to the anal walls being sensitive & tissue easier to tear, from the trauma of penetration NOT meant to happen. to an issue of remnants of waste/excrment to some Men injuring their Bowels(happened to a Gay friend, took him to the hospital), to the fact that unlike a vagina, it does not naturally lubricate itself for penetration. Therefore lube is a MUST, unlike Natural vaginal sex, where the woman’s body reacts, & everything works in sync. Anal sex is FORCED, UNHEALTHY, & UNNATURAL. Many gays have to douche do enemas, & all of that, ust to be able to have a Man pound them in the azz.
In many ways, I feel it’s a wasted BM. Imagine if ALL these GBM, had been upwardly mobile BM, marrying BW, having Black babies, & being Husbands, fathers, & pillars w/in your community to contribute to building us, rather than tearing us down. REAL BM who command respect, & are not weakened by a sexual flaw/dysfunction. Could you just imagine the positivity that could come from that??? BM are SUPPOSE to be the leaders, Head of the household, Kings! Where is exactly will GBM be able to lead us. It’s ALSO a loss, because many times when BM come out as Gay, they become wrapped in that lifestyle. They take on Gay Rights vs Black Rights. They participate in Gay Pride vs Black Manhood PRIDE. You all wear that lifestyle as a badge of honor, as if you are doing something noble. you are doing nothing more, than giving into your lust/dysfunction/flaw, that’s it!
You look at something like Miami Sizzle, & you see how many GBM come out, spend money, building Miami’s economy, & to have sex/orgies, w/as many Men as possible. Now, you ook at something like the Trayvon Martin case. Where were all those GBM then??? This was a young BM who was viciously killed, w/NO weapon, & NOBODY gives a fuck, not even BM whether gay, straight or otherwise. That is sad & disappointing. That’s why I say it’s a loss, cause you all will gladly make the effort to screw more Men, but NOT to help our community, yourself, & our young lack Children. I blame BM for alot of the downfall of the Black Community. You all haven’t been onyour job, & now we have all these Gay BM, as a Young Black Woman it’s crushing, & heart breaking…smdh. You can spew as much data as you want, but look clearly at the facts of what goes on, & the mental illness is BLATANT**