So my girlfriend’s ex from highschool (ok maybe this doesn’t count as a real ex) is all over the local news for child molesting and child porn.
Now, I know this is a bad thing. But I now I will never be the worst guy she dated.
For example, let’s say I rob a bank. People will say, “Did you hear. Sara’s boyfriend, Jebus, robbed a bank and shot a bunch of people!” But then the repsonse, “That’s nothing her ex raped kids.”
Or imagine this conversation between two of Sara’s friends.
Friend 1: Sara told me that Jebus recently got into scat porn and got Sara re-enact the videos with him. He is a freak.
Friend 2: That nothing. Her ex raped little boys.
Sure it is a low standard. But it is one I am comfortable I will never fall below.
I think it be concerned for Sara at this point. She seems to be attracting the wrong crowd.
OTOH, there was a local story in my part of the world about a 24 year old who gave birth in her bathroom and the drowned the baby in her toilet. (Currently I belive she is in jail for that). As soon as the story aired, my wife pulled out pictures of herself and this other girl from when they used to be friends.
Jebus, there’s a chance this could turn out badly, through no fault of yours. It might turn out that you don’t provide as much chaos as some part of her needs. I’m not talking about sex, I’m talking about crazy. Sometimes, a person who has been through a string of abusive relationships, that person doesn’t know how to cope with a good partner.
I remembers when that damn kitten started jacking off on Calvary. Let’s just say that was a bad day for me. I still have the scars on my hands and feet for some reason. The other scars went away. It makes no sense I tell ya.