I done broke up with the boyfriend!

Congratulations, and enjoy your travels. That sounds like it will be both an awesome and a cleansing experience.

As for cheating, I think the statistics show that it’s about 50/50 for guys being faithful, but I can tell you for sure that there are many, many men who prefer monogamy and will be as faithful as dogs. I’ve been with my wife for almost 20 years. In all that time, I’ve never so much as held hands with another woman (and I had plenty of opportunity in my younger, skinnier, rock bnd days).

Dr. Drew always says that women who have been through the ringer with guys need to pay a little more attention the guys who strike them as boring. What seems boring to them is just unfamiliar normality. The guys that seem exciting are the ones you have to be cautious about. Drew says some women get their radars screwed up that way and find themselves attracted to egoists and assholes over and over again, and they overlook some more healthy guys because they seem less intriguing at first.

I don’t know how valid any of that is, but it always seems to make sense when he says it.

Are you Buddhist, by the way? Are you going to any Buddhist shrines or historical sites in India?