Hi everybody!
It’s time for my semi-regular weekly meltdown. Yes, I’m drunk again, although not stinkingly so. TVeblen and other helpful dopers from my Jack Daniel’s thread will be happy to know that I have come to understand and appreciate the “sipping” concept, and I’m taking full advantage of it tonight. And I’m feeling just fine, thankyouverymuch.
So, lately I have noticed that I’ve been drinking a lot more than usual. This is not saying much, because I used to never drink hardly at all, but it’s something that has given me pause. I was out with a couple of friends last night, and I had three drinks. Two glasses of wine and a Seven and Seven (which is a mixture of whiskey and 7-Up I think). No big deal, I didn’t drink myself sick or anything. But… do you ever drink, then thank God you’re not an alcoholic, and then think about how “Well, the only times I ever drink are when I’m out with friends, or home with the family, or…” and then you start to think about how often you actually do drink? And then you think about all the times you drink alone, like right now, for instance.
I’m not pathetic, really, I’m just a guy who hardly ever used to drink (because it made him sick a little too often) and now happens to drink with greater frequency. I don’t drink every day, maybe a few times a week.
But what disturbs me is this: I am profoundly dissatisfied with my life right now. I am taking steps to change it - being proactive, if you will. I have decided that I want to live in a tropical climate (or that I want to have lived in a tropical climate so that when I’m on my deathbed in sixty years I won’t have to regret that I never lived in a tropical climate). So I am involved in an active job search for employment in a tropical climate (America’s Wang, specifically Southwest America’s Wang). I’m making progress and I’m proud of myself for making this decision and taking steps toward carrying it out.
But there can be no doubt that the dissatisfaction is the reason for the drinking. What this says to me is “You are a person who turns to alcohol when you’re not feeling tiptop.”
I’m also mixing the alcohol with medication. And no matter what I do, I can’t force myself to care. I take SSRI’s, and the psychiatrist recommended I watch my alcohol consumption. But I was on Prozac all through college, and I used to get really tanked sometimes back then. Much worse than nowadays.
So I guess what I’m saying is… I don’t know what I’m saying. Do any of you know what I’m saying?
No, seriously, I think I’m saying that I like the booze, but I don’t like to drink alone, and since I am alone an awful lot these days, partly due to my profound dissatisfaction with life, I like to post to the SDMB when I’m drinking, because that way I feel like I’m at my favorite bar (pub for you UK and Ozzie dopers, but you knew that) tossing a few back with friends.
I guess that’s all. Thanks for being there, dopers.
Much love,
C