I dumped him.

After a whole year, he finally pushed the last button and foxboy goes down the tubes.

:::flushing sound:::

Long and complicated, but this relationship was going, going, gone for a long time. He likes somebody else, someone who won’t give him the time of day in that respect, and I can only hope that he gets crushed because of the 5+ times he’s hurt me.
So yes, ladyfoxfyre is on the market, again. Yay, it’s so good to be single. :rolleyes: Nope, not really.

I was at a huge emotional high today after I handed him his ring, and said, “I’m not doing this anymore. Goodbye.”
I was so happy and proud of myself, for standing up for my feelings and refusing to let him dominate me emotionally.
All of my (few) friends rallied around me, hugging me and saying how proud of me they were.

I was giddy for an hour and a half, then I came home. I called Jason, talked to him even though I knew he would be no help, and found out that both me and ex-foxboy were taking it about the same, which was, “Eh, life goes on.”
You’d think it would be different after all we’ve gone through together, but I guess not. Life throws these funny curveballs at you at the most inopportune moments.

Like 4 days before Homecoming.

Yep, 4 days and I don’t have a date. I had a date yesterday, but I sort of dumped him, so now I am looking for someone, anyone, who is decent so I can move on with my life.

I’m almost considering just looking for a fling, just for a week or so to totally screw me up :rolleyes:

So that’s my story. To recap:
foxboy is no longer.
ladyfoxfyre is single and lonely, but proud of herself.
ladyfoxfyre is looking for a fling, preferably in the Colorado Springs area, age 18-21, sexy, around 6’, 140-190 lbs…sorry, I’m getting off on a tangent.
That’s it.
Life goes on, foxy cries, but eventually will be okay.

I hope.
:rolleyes:

It will. I’ve been there myself. So if you need someone to help hold you up when things are looking down, my e-mail is always open.

And, whether it’s worth anything or not, this Doper is proud of you for standing up for what you thought was right in your own life.

You should be proud of yourself, and have fun because you are single now. I understand the single life is kinda lonely, but it’s a whole lot better than putting up with a crappy situation. And if it helps I’d go to your homecoming with you if I wasn’t like on the other side of the country. sorry. I hope you find someone this time that is good for ya. {{{hug}}}

sigh
If only it was still 1972, and I was still at Carson.

Oh well…life goes on.

Well what Nicklz said is true. You really should be proud of yourself. You did the right thing.

Pfft, you don’t need him. Life goes on, and eventually someone will come along who will make you really happy and you’ll do the same for them.

Have fun at homecoming! Look absolutely stunning so he can bask in the fact that he doesn’t have you anymore. :smiley:

So when are we gonna go out? :wink:

Awww…is Crunchy Frog hitting on me? How swwweeeet!!!
:smiley:
I wuv you too Cwunchy Fwog

Yeah guys, I’m fine really. This had been building up for a while, and I was expecting it, and I’m glad I finally took control.

Oh, and Lady Juliet, don’t worry. I’m going to Homecoming, I was asked by one of his best friends, who already has a date, and has liked me for weeks now! Score one for foxy!
:smiley:

Ruh roh. This has major emotional uproar for all participants written all over it.

Damn! Just dash my hopes will ya? I’m 32, nearly 33, nowhere near Colorado Springs!

(But I am 5’11", 150, and I’ve been told I’m sexy! :wink: )