I give you all I have to offer, and it's not enough.

[Cat_Whisperer]

You know, the whole “setting her free” idea, as well as the last sentence makes me wonder if Lord Ashtar has a bit of a martyr complex. Do you, Lord? Have you thought about that at all?

[Cat_Whisperer]

I meant the last sentence in his OP, the one about how what he wants doesn’t matter anyway.

[Left_Hand_of_Dorkness]

@Anastasaeon

Poor choice of words or misogynistic, either way, Lord Ashtar, *don’t * use the phrase to her: When I eventually got my stupid ex on the phone after he broke up with me, he kept saying calmly, condescendingly, “You’re free. I’ve set you free.” I screamed at him: “FUCK YOU! I DIDN’T WANT TO BE ‘SET FREE’!”

I’m just wondering, and please don’t take offense, but is there any chance that maybe you’re a parakeet?

Daniel

[Anastasaeon]

@Left Hand of Dorkness

I’m just wondering, and please don’t take offense, but is there any chance that maybe you’re a parakeet?

Daniel

Even if I wanted to be offended by this, I couldn’t manage it while wiping the tears of laughter away. You suck.

[msmith537]

@Anastasaeon

Poor choice of words or misogynistic, either way, Lord Ashtar, *don’t * use the phrase to her: When I eventually got my stupid ex on the phone after he broke up with me, he kept saying calmly, condescendingly, “You’re free. I’ve set you free.” I screamed at him: “FUCK YOU! I DIDN’T WANT TO BE ‘SET FREE’!”

Yeah, that’s worse than the “it’s not you it’s me line”. Just be like “it’s not working out, seeya”. At least you won’t come off sounding like a douchebag. She’ll still thinl you’re a jerk, but at least she’ll respect you.

@velvetjones

I know that sounds harsh but to me it looks like your attitude about this is all screwed up. I think you need to take a long hard look inside yourself and make sure that your resolve to remain childless and single is based on something other than fear. And if your reasons are fear based then you need to decide whether or not you want to live your life from that perspective.

I can see some pretty legitimate reasons for not wanting a wife and kid. Not the least is not having to negitiate every decision with someone else and being locked into caring for a kid for 18 years.