I figured this would be way too lame to post as a Pit thread, as it has the distinct smell of MPSIMS on it. So here goes:
As is evident from some of my infrequent posts, I work in a call center. I take inbound calls about a specific product, inquiries, complaints, compliments, what have you. I’m pretty well trained too. I know a lot about what I do, in some cases a lot more about products that my company offers than the bigwigs in the company. Although I complain a lot, I really do enjoy my job, and I like talking to people from all around the country. I really do. But I’m about to go insane because of a very small issue: pet names.
General public, you do not know me. If you did, you would know better than to give me ridiculous endearments while on the phone with me. My own boyfriend doesn’t dare. Since you do not, though, I would like to respectfully (because I’M polite and respectful on the phone) ask that you stop calling me the following things instead of my name, Ma’am or Miss:
Baby
Honey
Sweetie
Sweetheart
Sweetcheeks (!)
Sugarpie
Love
Dear
Sugar
Honeychild (I’m not making that up)
or
Babylove
Just stop, ok? It makes me think that you assume I’m mildly retarded, whether it’s b/c of my young age, my fairer gender, my profession or some other random factor. It’s insulting to me to have to call someone Mr. or Mrs., sir or ma’am, and you’re calling me things that you would call a kitten!
Honestly, I’d rather take a call from an spitting, cussing customer than listen to someone call me these names several times in a conversation. I’m sure you have the best intentions, but it’s not nice. It feels belittling, and I just thought you should know.
I’m glad we had this talk. Maybe next time we’ll talk about you saying racist things and expecting me to agree with you b/c of my race, but that’s a totally different species of customer, so it’s for another time. And probably for the Pit.