I was discussing this “problem” (if that’s what it is) with thinksnow, Shibboleth, and DynoSaur over breakfast Sunday after Halloween OhDope. I went as Sister Mary Sleazy. There is a reason for that.
I have come to the conclusion that I have the sex drive of a 16 year old guy. This is odd, since I am neither 16 years old, nor a guy. I am, in fact, a 36 year old woman. I never used to be like this. But the past 3 years or so, when my mind is not otherwise occupied, I’m thinking of sex. And often when I am otherwise occupied. Getting some, though great when it happens, doesn’t do much to relieve things. The last weekend of fun I had, I got it 6 times in less than 48 hours. Was I happy? Yes. Was I ready for more almost immediately? Yes. I won’t even get into the Hair Trigger Clit[sup]TM[/sup].
I know part of it can be attributed to losing a lot of weight three years ago, and my self esteem finally skyrocketing (relatively speaking). But I think a big part of it is my age. Any other women in their early to mid thirties experiencing this same thing and finding it a little disconcerting? I find myself almost feeling predatory at times. Pity I still have such problems finding someone local I’d like to spend some time with. Though I might end up killing him, I dunno.
And guys, if the “thinking of sex when not otherwise occupied” is your perpetual state (which my OhDope buds indicated), how the hell do you ever accomplish anything at work?
I’m 38. This started around age 33 or 34 for me also. I have to warn you-so far it seems to only get more…umm…intense. I’m wondering when this ‘peak’ thing starts to level off. Do we get some kind of warning? a sign? Is there some way to slow time so I can enjoy this even longer?
You may have several more good years ahead of you yet. My SO is a 45 year old woman who likes nothing better than to spend hours having sex, leaving the bed only to eat the occassional meal, answer nature’s call, and stretch a bit. Our current record is somewhere around 10 hours.
Speaking as a 26 year old, I can say that I don’t have the warp-speed sex drive yet, but I anxiously await it. My drive has increased since I lost a lot of weight, though. I think it is a self-esteem thing, too. I’ve heard other thirtysomething friends of mine say the same thing you are saying.
Hey! That’s MY line porc!
I’m 31 and damn, I know how you feel. There are times I’ll be at work and out of the blue THIS will pop in my head…
You know what would be great right now? Tongue, then bouncy bouncy, then tongue…
[sub]And you know you’re bad when you get shushed during sex. I knew it was early, and I knew he had neighbors but did I care? You’d think he’d be grateful he was pleasing me but no, I got the “shhshh”. See if I say YOUR name, hehehehehe[/sub]