Oh! Well I’m 41 and, uh, well, um…
(zoogirl blush’s bright red and slinks off thread.)
Re: Fireman as Sex Slave - Geo, I’ll keep you posted. The problem is the elusive vibe, aka “chemistry.” If the vibe is there, I may have a sex slave soon enough. And it’s certainly a bonus if there is not only a vibe, but if he liked to play with vibes.
RTFirefly, you’ve been sigged, baby.
And to all the guys flirting with someone other than me in this thread: This is permissable if and only if you make a suggestive comment to me first. <nudge nudge, wink wink, say no more> 
Porcupine, I think I’m in lust with you. I’m waiting for my wife (we’re both late 30’s) to catch up with her age. My wife says I’m oversexed, but given the recent infrequency of our joinings, I’d say it’s more apt to say that I’m undersexed.
Also, any tips (from anyone) on getting her to be multi- (or at least bi-) orgasmic? After one orgasm (from cunnilingous), she’s usually urging me to quickly take care of my needs and let her get back to sleep. I, on the other hand, would love to dive back down and get things warmed up for a second act.
sigh.
thanks for letting me fantasize for a minute about your prickly dilemma (and mine).
Well, I don't want to just pay lip service to your situation, but sometimes too much hair around the trigger reduces the sensitivity, but YMMV.
Hope you get the problem licked.
Porc made me bump this :D…I am not proud I will admit it…err and sex drive good… :flees in embarassment:…