It’s not the normal request for good wishes and prayers and friendly vibes.
My FIL is dying. His heart is failing, he’s in massive pain, his painkillers are all maxed out, and he wants to die.
If you have any thoughts to spare, please hope that he finds peace soon. Thank you.
Let him go find his peace. He’ll be in my prayers. Be strong and keep the faith.
May he pass swiftly and with dignity. My hopes and prayers are with you and yours.
My sympathies on your family having to endure such a tragic situation. I certainly hope your FIL finds peace soon.
Maybe his son should tell him that it’s ok to go? I hope he finds peace soon, and wish for you all the strength to deal with his loss.
How terrible, jsgoddess. Words seem so inadequate – I do hope he finds relief and peace. You will both be in my thoughts.
Consider it done. May he go gently into that good night.
Thank you.
Right now I’m sitting at home in Ohio hoping to get a call that he’s died in Kentucky. I can’t even wrap my head around the fact that I’m hoping he dies tonight. He’s in such pain.
Thank you for understanding.
hugs long and hard
“One should die proudly when it is no longer possible to live proudly.”
–Nietzche
I hope he passes away with peace and without pain. God rest him.
My mother used to work at a store that sold maternity clothes and accessories. Her manager, Jane, had an elderly, chronically ill mother. After hearing one of Jane’s many recountings of the woman’s struggles, Erma (an employee who had emigrated from Germany and maintained an accent) was moved to remark: “It vould be a blessing if old lady vould just die in her sleep.”
Sounds as if it would be a blessing for all concerned if “old gentleman were to die in his sleep”. My thoughts are with you, jsgoddess. If you’re off the boards for a few days, we’ll understand. Please post an update when you can.
Still waiting. He’s mostly unconscious now, which is a good thing.
{{{jsgoddess}}}
jsgoddess your FIL and your family (you included) are in my thoughts and prayers. May he find peace and rest soon.
That’s not a horrible thought at all. At the end, when there’s nothing more that can be done, all you can do is hope he goes peacefully.
Have you contacted hospice?
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
I usually get too chocked up to post in these types of threads but please accept my sincere sympathy. Watching a loved one endure such pain is just plain killer. 
I’ve just finished a prayer for your FIL and for the family. Thanks for honoring us with something this personal and difficult.
Sending my best thoughts your way and his way.
Yes, hospice has been involved since, I guess, the start of the weekend.
He’s donating his body to the University of Louisville where perhaps it will contribute to the saving or improving of someone’s life. That’s a comfort to me.
I never feel I know what to say in these threads. Just…I’m really sorry, and I hope he goes soon.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.