So you have a friend come on to him to see his reaction … and he appears to accept the invitation.
I’d say you’re meant for each other.
DOH! I fell for a Zombie Thread.
Now wonder they warn about these things in the forum rules.
It’s okay to fall for a zombie, citizenzen, as long as you didn’t put your all in to it and spend alot of money.
Glad things worked out, even years later. Before I saw the dates, I would have thought you had trust issues & maybe needed to think about them before considering other people.
Given that you’ve moved on, moved past them, and are now happier than ever, I’m glad to be wrong.
As for the negative things about the guy who fell into the pit-trap you set, since you’re so happy, why not be generous and let it go?
Be happy with what you have, not vindictive about what you don’t.
We should let this zombie die.
Period.