So what is it then? By George, tell me! I need to know what to expect.
Alright…so I’ve been mango kissing for about five minutes and what I’ve noticed is that I’m making that raspberry blowing sound whenever my lips lose pucker formation and become more open and spread out. Like, if you press your mouth while it’s open against your arm and suck in you get the same sound.
But aren’t your lips supposed to spread open when you’re kissing and using tongue? Hers don’t seem to, and I don’t understand that either. Like I said before, she sticks her tongue out through her puckered lips which leaves me wondering how I’m supposed to put my tongue into her mouth.
Best kiss I ever had was with a guy who had very little experience. But he also had the brains to copy some of the stuff I did (and me the daring to take the initiative part of the time)… when I moved away from his mouth, kissing his cheeks and throat, he took the chance to kiss whatever parts of me got within distance; when I lifted his shirt and let my hands roam over his back (slowly, it’s an exploration not the Paris-Dakar) he let his roam around as well. Heck, just being able to lmove his hands away from my ass and tits gives him a whole extra star over way too many guys.
You don’t get half-an-hour kisses by sticking to one spot
Before using your teeth, use your lips - I’ve got many parts which I’m ok with being lip-nibbled (no sucking, just catching that bit between your lips) but not teeth-nibbled, much less downright bitten.
When you get a positive response, that means “more of that and also try doing it harder.” Different people give positive responses in different ways - you (and any new lovers you ever have) will have to learn what each other’s are. Getting closer is definitely a positive sign.
Methinks you’re assuming she’s got a lot more experience than she’s got…
You can’t get your tongues into each other’s mouth at the same time. Well, yes, but it’s not the best move in my book and it can’t be kept up for long.
What she wants you to do when she sticks the tip of her tongue out, if I’m reading it right, is brush the tip of your tongue against hers (like “eskimo kissing” with tongue tips instead of nose tips) and/or brush your lips over the tip of her tongue; try both. Kiss the knuckle on your thumb with open lips (open lips, not Jaws’ mouth) and then move away closing your lips at the same time, that’s more or less the idea for the second move.
There is no “supposed to” - do whatever you like. If you want to keep your mouths closed, do so. Sticking your tongue out through closed puckered lips certainly isn’t how I kiss and it doesn’t sound very attractive to me, but that’s the way she kisses so why don’t you do the same? Or simply allow her tongue into your mouth and touch tongues that way. Trying to force your mouth open or jousting with tongues poking out through closed mouths is going to be a bit awkward, so let her do her thing, relax, and be guided by her. You don’t have to stick your tongue down her throat
Forget about how it looks when people kiss in movies, that’s not real kissing. Talk and evolve your own style.
Great advice, just liked to echo the fact that a lot of different people have very different kissing preferences. I tend to be a light kisser, with very little tongue penetration and I enjoy nibbling a bit around the neck. On the otherhand, my brother’s ex-girlfriend once compared kissing him to kissing a broken washing machine (don’t ask how this came up).
Good to hear you have returned to the dating ranks Joeski. Even though this was a rather curious line:
I really hope this was a woosh, but just in case you’re being serious…
NO!
Porn is designed for the pleasure of the viewer, not the participants. Nothing in porn, from kissing to sexual positions to oral sex techniques to [del] cuming [/del]… [del] cumming [/del]… ejaculating in her face, is a good representation of how most women (and men) like things in real life.
When watching porn, watch yourself. The way you’re touching yourself (and wishing you had someone else touching you at that moment) is much more likely to be the way someone else wants to be touched. And I bet you’re not contorted into pretzel-like shapes so that your open crotch can be viewed from a standing height 6 feet away, are ya?
I’m a babe in the woods when it comes to meeting women, but I’ve had no complaints when it comes to kissing. I’ve found that a lighter touch works wonders. Do it right, and she’ll practically scream where to go next. Often, it’s south.
I may have a chance to put this into action later on today. Wish me luck.
In all seriousness, it’s not a big deal. (Assuming she’s already swallowed, that is, unless you’re into that.) Not letting her kiss you after she sucks you off is a classic Jackass Guy Move. I mean, think about it–she’s just done something physically unpleasant for her, strictly to get you off and/or turn you on. Now you’re going to deny her a kiss for it? Damn.
(Full disclosure: I used to not let girls kiss me after they blew me. It was dumb and I really regret it, since I now believe it was part of how I let The One get away.)
I though this was a kissing thread. If JoeSki wants to plunge ahead through all the available steps afterward, though, that’s his business. And incidentally, if swallowing your product is that unpleasant for a girl, you need to look into changing your diet. It isn’t supposed to be that bad.
The blowjob is unpleasant, silly, not the swallowing. Actually, I’ve heard favorable reviews. I even sampled some of it myself once, and I have to say it ain’t too bad.
Tee-hee. I watched one yesterday in which two girls were “kissing” by flicking their tongues together. They looked like they were desperately trying to flip a light switch with their mouths. I giggled at the unsexiness.
