So here I am, looking at the massive number of photos I’ve posted to Facebook over the years. Given that a number of the more recent photos are of myself and my wife, I started tagging her and myself. I should mention that we have been married for not quite two months.
Then I came to a photo WHICH I POSTED TO FACEBOOK MORE THAN A YEAR BEFORE I MET MY WIFE, of me and my girlfriend from 1989, when I was 23 (I’m 50 now). I tagged myself, and then tried to tag my ex-girlfriend. I typed my ex’s first and last (maiden) name, and Facebook decided to autocomplete and label my ex "Firstname + Middlename-which-was-actually-her-last-name + the last name of some random person. Or, to make that more clear, my girlfriend from 1989 was named, let’s say, “Jane Doe”. So I typed “Jane Doe” and Facebook autocompleted that to “Jane Doe Smith”, because there is apparently a “Jane Doe Smith” out there.
And since I didn’t want Jane Doe Smith to wonder why the hell I was tagging her (because I don’t know any Jane Doe Smith), I said, “fuck it” and just deleted the photo from Facebook.
And that’s when my new wife came upstairs, shoving her smartphone in my face.
It seems that my tagging activity (which included tagging both myself and my wife) alerted her smartphone … and she spotted my attempts to tag that old photo.
This happened like six seconds after I deleted the photo.
So she’s shoving her phone at me, with that photo, and the original caption, “Me and Jane, the love of my life”
sigh There’s a reason I didn’t type a period at the end of that last sentence: That’s all her phone showed her. I had to take her phone from her and (since I don’t use a smartphone myself) figure out how to scroll down, so that she could see the whole comment, specifically the end of the sentence: “… at the time.” And “at the time” was 1989.