So, you concede that my mother died of covid. Let me tell you what “dying of covid with comorbidities” actually looks like, at least in this one case. I suspect it’s fairly typical, however.
My mother had myasthenia gravis. She had some other comorbidities (kidney disease, high blood pressure, moderate dementia) but the only one that really mattered for the covid infection was myasthenia. It’s an autoimmune disease where you make antibodies to a chemical that your nerves use to talk to your muscles. So when she had a major flare up, around 2002, she ended up in the intensive care unit on a respirator because she was so profoundly weak that she couldn’t breath. She was there for months, until she was finally diagnosed, but once diagnosed she was successfully treated by a combination of mechanically removing antibodies from her blood (by replacing her plasma, using the same machine they use for some blood donations) and by medically depressing her immune system.
She’d been in remission for two decades. BUT, at the cost of a permanently depressed immune system. She took the same drugs that transplant patients take, for basically the same reason.
When she caught covid, she was pretty healthy. She had an aide because of the dementia. Yes, she was old and frail and in decline, but she did the crossword puzzle over the phone with my brother every afternoon. She enjoyed food and company and TV. Her friends visited, she came my house for to meals, and we hosted Thanksgiving at her house.
Then she caught covid. At first, it was just a cold. Then she briefly improved. But then the covid triggered her weakened immune system. Not enough that it killed the covid, but enough that she was mostly paralyzed. It also killed her brain. (Fun fact, covid directly attacks brain cells of it gets past your front line immune defenses.) She lost the ability to speak, declining overnight from moderate to profound dementia. Because she was paralyzed, we had to lift and turn her regularly, and every time we did that she looked terrified and cried out in pain when we handled her. Then the pneumonia kicked in, and she struggled to breathe.
It was an ugly painful death. If she hadn’t had covid, she might have lived in decent health for months, or even a couple of years, and died quietly of a heart attack.
So yes. She had several comorbidities. And yes, she died of covid. And yes, that was a bad thing, for her and for those who loved her.