I think this attitude is unnecessarily harsh. I hate the trumpist anti-vaxxers too, who think not getting vaxxed is a triumph against the libs or something, but there are other reasons people don’t get vaccinated.
Full disclosure: my wife has not gotten vaccinated yet. She’s not a trumpy (she hates him with a passion) or an anti-vaxxer otherwise. She’s been very responsible with mask-wearing and other Covid protocols thoughout the pandemic. She almost got vaxxed when she took our 15 yo to get the shot as soon as it was available to him, but she chickened out.
Her reasoning is that she feels it was too rushed into use with insufficient testing. I disagree with her on this. Yes, I know all the arguments against this. She keeps sending me articles about someone who became paralyzed or got a dangerous clot soon after getting the shot, saying “See? See?” We’ve had many discussions that have come to argument, but she’s holding her ground for now. I’ve stopped pushing her on it since it does no good.
If anyone has advice for me on how I can convince her please share, because unlike the OP I’d like to keep her around for awhile!