and boy, am I relieved. This job has been going badly for over a year now, with a bad company, a bad supervisor, and bad management, and the only thing I regret is that I wasn’t able to get another job first. There comes a time, however, when your mental and physical health has to come before practical considerations.
So, sayonara, suckers. I’m done beating my head against this particular wall.
Amen, sister!
Some people seem to think that hanging onto a job that is sucking the very life of you is always what you must do, but that’s not necessarily the case. Sometimes, things get so bad and so awful, that bailing out is the only sane choice.
Good luck to you! Congratulations on your freedom!
Further congratulations are in order.
Life is too short to spend it working for assholes.
Congrats, featherlou.
This post is really hitting home for me, I needed to read those words today. I’m in a similar situation and I’m weighing this decision myself.
Thanks for the reminder. Best of luck to you with the job hunt.
Congratulations, featherlou!! I’m so happy for you. I did the same thing last month, and haven’t regretted it at all. It’s much better to be able to dedicate your time to finding something you love rather than wasting your time where you’re miserable. Good for you!
Thanks for the support. This was an incredibly tough decision, but when my co-worker started losing her temper again this morning, and I heard how our supervisor said she didn’t want to hear any more complaining from us and if we didn’t like it we should quit, it just seemed to be the thing to do. Nothing like telling your workers they should just quit if they don’t like their miserable working conditions - some of us will actually take you up on it.
Good luck, featherlou! Your OP brought back memories of the job that sucked up several years of my life. And took a few to quit, because I had the deer-in-the-headlights, nowhere else to go perspective working.
As soon as I finally quit, horizons opened up.
Again, good luck, and I mean it and wish you well.
Huzzah and welcome to the ranks of the happily unemployed. The day I quit my crappy job was one of the best days of my life.
Luck to you in whatever new job you find.
So featherlou, now that you no longer work there…
What the heck company is it? I’m planing my boycott already (assuming it’s a place that can be boycotted.)
Also, what sort of work do you do - I may be able to help with a few leads in town. Well, unless you’re some sort of a technical, gizmo-gadget, particle accelerator designer - then you’re on your own. 
I’m never gonna understand the business modality that seems to think “Making one’s employees stressed out and miserable can increase production and be generally good for business.”
Has it ever worked, except in the extremely short run?
Amen.
My last job I stayed with longer than I should have. It wasn’t the management or my direct boss, but that I was in a job I shouldn’t have been in. I knew I should leave, but I didn’t. I got to the point that I was physically ill every morning before leaving my apartment and still didn’t go. When it hit me was when I started thinking how nice it would be to have a car accident on the weekend in which I broke my leg or something - or if I accidentally slipped and got my leg caught between the train and the platform during my commute - I didn’t want to die, I just wanted to be injured enough that I couldn’t go in to work for a while.
I’m much happier now - and I will not allow myself to end up in that situation again. Leaving a job is much easier than staying in one I hate.
You could argue it powers the American economy. I would, but then people’d want cites.
Congrats featherlou. I am glad that you are finally free of a job you hate. I recently left a job that I began to hate. It’s been great, I have had so much fun at home with my kids. I can tell our home life is going much smoother as a whole. I didn’t realize when I was stressed it carried over to the kids. Mornings are less crazy, so the day goes better for everyone.
(((((featherlou)))) good luck in the job search.
Oh My Gosh.
I am not the only one! I used to have fantasies like that all the time!
It wasn’t like the job was always, always miserable. But there were stresses and perils that were beyond unreasonable, and I knew that they were there, hanging over my head, all the time. Also, we never got any time off. Never. Except for vacation time (which was, to be fair, reasonably generous) I never, never had a holiday off. Worked Christmas, New Year’s, Thanksgiving, etc. etc.
You start to dream of getting sick or twisting an ankle just so you can get a few days off.
I quit my rotten job a few weeks ago…best decision I ever ever made. Should have done it months ago…
Good luck finding a new and better job!
You rock. Some people just need to be called out to the carpet. I admire you for standing up.
I quit my horrible job on monday…and I’m loving the chase of finding new and better employment.
I have ome to the conclusion that life is too short to be working for people who treat anyone like they are anything less than human.
My final straw was being told that I’d have to work for less than minimum just because a cow-orker was out sick.
Yeah! Where was this hell hole!!???
Details, details!
I want every bloody, gory detail, of how you told your boss where to shove it…the look on her face…the quiet cheering from the peanut gallery…the “attagirl” from the security guards as they escorted you from the building.