These fucking muscle queens bitching about people being femme and “if I wanted a woman I’d be straight” are going up my butt about a MILE right now. Aren’t you sick of these assholes?
Look, honey, I didn’t decide to go into the gay business so I could just be another macho idiot who happens to listen to the Pet Shop Boys, OK? Now, you can go be butch all you like; in fact sometimes butch boys turn me on. And you can even choose not to screw nelly boys. But for gods’ sake quit bitching about them!
I did not decide to be femme to obey a stereotype, OK? If I wanted to be popular, going out and becoming Miss Thang would not be the way I’d go about it. If there is such a stereotype, it is conforming to me.
I really don’t fucking give a shit if you think I’m giving you a bad name, or if you think people who see me drifting through life on a cloud of lavender fairy dust are going to think the same thing (horrors!) about you. It’s my fucking life, and they’re my fucking wrists, okay? If you don’t like it that I’m a screaming queen on my own time, you can go fuck yourself.
Drag queens and butch dykes fought for your rights at Stonewall. Show some respect.
I did not come out of the closet and go through years of homophobic shit and become part of the gay liberation movement so that I could keep living how other people want me to live.
Fucking assholes. I hope you all choke to death on steroid pills, girlfriends!!*
Great… now the gay people are calling each other “faggots”. When I was in college my gay friend would put anyone who said that into a painful hold of some sort so he could lecture them on how offensive it is.
Did you choose those words on purpose? Maybe I’m reading into it too much, I just find a possible other meaning amusing.
May your crusade prove fruitful. (No pun initially intended, but now that I see it there I’m going to leave it)
Matt, you go on and be as fabulous as you like. There are all flavors of gay folks, and nobody needs oppression from their own folks. There is no need to hide our nelly boys into the closet to be accepted by hets. I’m a masculine gay man, but I love and cherish my nelly brothers, too.
I’m sorry honey, I wish I could help. I can somewhat relate though. I used to be a fat chick. Now I’m fat, divorced and middle aged! See it ain’t easy being hetero either sometimes.
I never, repeat NEVER hop onto a thread just to say “LOL” or “you rule” (at least I can’t ever recall doing so) but I have to say Matt, even though it is obviously a sore subject for you, you had me laughing my ass off!!
I have never heard your voice so please forgive me if I sound like I am stereotyping, but in reading your words (especially the “girlfriend” part) I could actually hear that lispy, bitchy, voice filled with attitude.
:::Wayans Brothers voice on:::: Two snaps up and a slap on the behind :::Wayans Brothers voice off:::
<long sigh> . . . it’s images like this one that make me wish I were a gay man.
All I can say is that what the hell fun would it be watching “Mommie Dearest” with some butch dude who would rather think about lifting weights than revel in poor little Christina’s misfortune?? Hmmm?
Look, Matt’s not saying, “I’m persecuted! Weep for me!” He’s just venting over the fact that there’s backlash against butch girls and femme boys within the community.
Yeesh. Not everything that the gay posters write about homosexuality is a heartfelt plea for tolerance.
Don’t let it get you down Matt, my guess is behind closed doors those guys are about as butch as an ice skaters friend. If they’re happy acting like assholes then let 'em, at least you know better!
Right on, matt! Sissy power is where it’s at whether you’re gay or straight. Tired of being dissed by Clint Eastwood wannabees! (Not to mention gay-bashed once or twice).
No, my macho “brothers”, we do not all wish that we were you.
I sorta figured I would never post in a gay related thread, as I figure I don’t have anything to much to add, but gee Matt, your opening line was just flat out funny ! It’s been mentioned before in this thread and I hope you can see that.
That beside, I guess it does go to show, there’s no perfect world out there for any of us, no matter where we’re coming from. In my limited contact with anyone in the gay community I have seen some of the most headstrong, biased, opinionated, and sometimes rather annoying people I would ever care to meet. I can see how that would get on your nerves. Don’t let it get you down. You are you, and if others can’t deal with it, ignore ‘em. (I woulda said fuck ‘em, but I didn’t want it taken out of context.)
