Yes, she had a picture up right from the start. I knew she was black and guessed she was younger. I was surprised that she was THAT tall when she expanded her profile, and I learned she had a child and was catholic after that.
I really wish I could show you all her picture. She’s SO pretty, it’s tragic she’s the way she is.
Thanks for the advice! I’ll try my best to present myself in a good light, and let my driving limitations and SSD issues come up organically, trying not to make them out to be a big deal.
I don’t feel comfortable lying… but if the opportunity comes up, maybe I’ll tell a fib or two. I do like the; “I’m between jobs right now” tactic. I won’t feel guilty because it’s true.
As far as sex is concerned, seeing that it’s all some of you guys seem to think that I’m thinking, I’m not looking for casual sex. My medication really doesn’t help my sex drive. That and I’ve had very limited experience with sex/making love. If you look at my history on these board, you’ll see that I even started a thread a while back asking; “Is sex overrated?”.
Maybe I’ve been with the wrong partners.
As mentioned, my meds.
Having sex too soon in a relationship can lead to drama. When this gal and I texted each other, I definitely got the impression that she’s not looking for sex until a relationship’s been established.
No set amount of time, but there should be a sexual energy/chemistry between you. There should be the aura of “we’re waiting an arbitrary amount of time but at some point we’re definitely getting it on.”
This sounds way too similar. I posted this on Friday.
Her profile also stated she was religious and used prayer. She messaged me again, and I basically said “Look, you’re 21 years younger then me, you’re religious, and I’m not. I don’t think we have much in common.” She stopped messaging me after that. I honestly wonder it it’s the same lady.