I will be marrying the future Mr. Deca. Yeah for me! I was engaged once before and everytime the ex would bring up marriage, I would hyperventilate and the room would start closing in on me. This time around I am giddy about planning my wedding and I am looking forward to spending the rest of my life with one person.
We are having a Halloween wedding in the courtyard of our local pub. I just talked to the pub owner who is also an ordained minister and he has agreed to marry us in a humorous, non-religious ceremony. I am hoping I can get him to dress in drag as the rest of the wedding party and all the guests will be in costume.
As soon as we nail down a date, I will let everyone know and you are all welcome. I guess an additional selling point would be to mention that this pub has Guinness on tap. Fun wedding, costumes and good beer should make for an exciting time all around.
Congratulations! I would offer my standard advice, which is “Elope!”, but you sound like you have the wedding madness well in hand. I think the pub wedding at Halloween is a very cool idea.
oooh, fun! My sister was married on October 30th of this year - I wanted her to have a costume wedding, but she went more traditional. It was lovely anyway, though!
Congrats on your wedding! I’m getting married in January of 2007
My fiance is a grad student, so we wanted to arrange it so it coincides with his vacation, and we didn’t want it in the summer (too hot!).
To the groom: If and when your spouse’s flame goes out for you, it’ll never re- light. Don’t piss her off and make the flame go out. It will never re-light.
Chicks aren’t like dudes where they can turn love on and off. When it’s off for a girl, it’s off for good.
Live under you means. Spend less than ya take in.
Don’t get mad at her just because she’s mad at you.
Be a good listener, and really listen to her opinions and consider using them.
Fun wedding, costumes and good beer should make for an exciting time all around.
Congratulations!