G., I’ve gotta tell you. I read the thread with the quilt bread reference, and, with your comment, I don’t think you were in the wrong. It may have been offensive to some , but any good joke will be.
However, don’t interpret that to mean no harm - no foul. You certainly were in the wrong with your subsequent responses. Look, the rules here are simple. Give other posters the benefit of the doubt, and DO NOT HASSLE THE MODS! I have broken both many times.
But when I did, I either emailed or posted an “I fucked up” to the offending mod (offended, I suppose). And they have always been gracious about it.
So, G. Nome, say you are sorry and get over it. Don’t go dragging me and my man into this mess.