Citizen Pained, don’t know of you’d seen it yet or not, but I figured you should know that you’ve been pitted…
Yeah, it’s hard to miss when it’s on the front page.
Nothing short of me releasing medical data, my full name, parents’ names, work email address and a photo of me holding up today’s newspaper will do anything --and even that will just fuel the fire. People on here who have contacted me via ‘the real-life internet’ can use their Google-fu and figure it out. 
I have enough drama.
Hey Cit, I’ve been away for a few days. How are things for you now? I see you’ve posted in other threads, so I’m glad to know you’re upright at least!
Upright! Trying to find a clinic that can do this on a Sat, so maybe I’ll be minus embryo (fetus?) in a couple of days.
I am not looking forward to it at all. Its pretty much causing a small panic attack when I do think about it. They stick stuff up there and it’s loud.
Thanks for the check-in. 
My coworker is pregnant and I’ve been strangely jealous of her the last week, but I think it’s just hormones. Well…and this whole things makes me feel extremely sad in general.
I know I have said this before but:
{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}
I have spent the last couple of days in an anxious crying mess…I feel another mental breakdown coming on. sigh
So I blocked him from my VZ account. Figured that would help.
Well, you guys were right. I was SO stupid. SO FUCKING STUPID. He also cancelled the check he wrote to cover the abortion and the medical stuff. So I get to put off doing a root canal (again) to get rid of it. Even though I don’t want to.
I think I should come over to America just to punch him.
Maybe a threat of keeping the alien and making him pay child support may Have an effect? Also ask for cash next.
You are not responsable for jerk faces actions. You are not stupid. You are hormonal and stressed and hurting.
There are people who care for you (even if they do live on the other side of the planet) who will support you in any way they can. Remember you have options. You don’t have to continue being pregnant - but you don’t have to abort if you don’t want to either (and there are plenty enuogh people wanting to adopt if you compromise with the two options). It is your choice (and be buggered to jerkface) and speaking for myself I will support whatever decision you make/have made. Just do whatever is best for you and your son.
(((((((Hugs)))))))))))))
Thankfully, you have that $4,000 tax refund coming. That should go a long way with paying for the abortion and still let you get the root canal.
Why would he do that? He’s rather pay child support?
Well…it doesn’t happen often, but I’m speechless. What a douche.
I spent most of my tax return already on back bills, credit cards, and trying not to get sued for medical bills. I have enough left for dentist, but no bed for my son thanks to a shady car dealership that just bait and switched me for $500 today.
Since we get paid extra for doing testing (yay standardized testing!) my hope was to get the crown and/or root canal within a month. (It takes several visits.) If it’s just the crown, it’s $1,200. If it’s crown + root canal (dentist’s opinion) it’s more like $2,400 +. He is 100 per cent aware of my financials.
He said to “call him in 9 months for paternity testing”. Oh, yeah, right. Like I have a history of sleeping around and neglecting to mention it!
I am extremely hormonal because I am getting more and more irrationally attached to the alien I can’t afford. And the abortion thing is freaking me the F out.
Since we got into a fight yesterday (I KNOW, it was MY FAULT), he’s punishing me.
Since he makes so much money under the table (professional accountant turned poker player re: mental illness), he’s liable for like $300-$400 a month even though he goes skiing every weekend and eats out every day and can put new tires on his Jeep and etc.
We’re supposed to meet at PP tomorrow for an u/s for his “further proof”. The original check he wrote me was canceled. I could go and pay myself, but he says he needs proof its viable.
I want to throw up. I am an overly anxious person anyway, but I’m teetering towards mental breakdown stage.
PS F the state for cutting education funding and making me a p/t teacher.
PPS F our healthcare system.
Thank you! I saw I had a package at the office today. Is that from you? And alice sent me a card.
It was one of these moments when I checked my mail. I hope I have gelatin-less Skittles tomorrow!! 
You’re well rid of this dirtbag. Please keep in mind that PP has funds for people that can’t pay for an abortion, because it would be horrible to have a baby because you can’t afford one. Keep your chin up- you will get through this.
They don’t here. You can get a subsidized rate at one PP clinic if you are at poverty level (I’m not). I’m calling another one (not PP) to see what they do - they said call for financial options. I’m considering grabbing a coat hanger and doing it the old fashioned way.
If you are unable to afford an abortion, and unable to support another child, what about adoption?
Ummm, what?
Oh, sorry. My son shares my bed. He grew out of his toddler one and I just didn’t have the cash and he doesn’t want his own bed. That did sound very weird!
Long story re: dealer. But it was “pay $500 the sales manager said you didn’t have to b/c it was our fault OR you can’t have your car keys back”. Exact works: Let her walk home.
The bill was for another car…37 days ago…I had taken in the new (well it’s old) car for something else (had traded the dead 2003 they couldn’t fix/kept f’n up for an old 98 Blazer) and went to pick up today only to find SURPRISE!! YOU OWE US over $900 but we’ll work out a “deal” and you pay $500 OR we sue for 3x the bill! And no, you cannot have your car keys.
They already sold the junked out car.
very off topic; sorry.
I will get the abortion - I just have to pull it from other earmarked funds. It’s frustrating, because even though I’m dying to eat madrabbitwoman’s Skittles, I can only do so with one side of my mouth.
A-hole had dangled two checks in front of me yesterday - one that covers the rest of my son’s tuition (he has a scholarship but there’s still a $1,335 balance) and one for the abortion.
He canceled both this morning.
If he’s making enough money playing poker to live off of, then he’s not playing in somebody’s basement. Casinos take VERY seriously reporting duties regarding gambling winnings- in fact, the IRS has made a concerted, serious effort to go after poker players in particular over the last few years. How do I know? A lot of them are my clients.
I find it strange that someone with such tremendous social issues— verging on outright agoraphobia— was not only a professional accountant (ie: went to college, passed the CPA exam, then presumably worked with at least customers), but also a professional poker player (an activity that involves being around a whole mess of douchey douche douche bags). Are you sure you’re not either exaggerating his mental problems a bit? Or at least his social and professional successes?
Once again, though, he’s a douche. Don’t talk to him. At all. No reason.